Make her start thinking for herself: put your arms around her and say, "sweetheart, do you honestly think that a God of love, who created all the puppies and kittens and this beautiful earth, would destroy me at Armageddon just because I don't go to meetings? Put yourself in His place -- would you, COULD you destroy someone you KNOW is a good person just because they don't believe the same things you do?" Or substance. Don't hit her with everything all at once because it will overload her brain and cause her to dig her heels in further. Just a well-placed question here and there, and LOTS of love so she can't mentally put you in the "evil apostate with horns" category.
Thanks for this good advice. I may have to wait a long time. It ius the only sad part of my life right now. Its a major thing though. I just wish that she could see through al the BS and come out. Time will work things out. As long as I stay out of 'drunkeness , glutony & womanising' I will be able to show her that there is a good life outside da twoof.
PS - just a quick thought; it may be that by getting her along to my social events, she sees that not all worldly people are bad. Hoping.............