I thought that LEGALLY, the "no blood" issue is one of conscience?
IN other words, the WTBTS does not MANDATE the JW not get an blood transfusions but leave sit up to the individual to decide, isn't that the OFFICIAL position?
Yes, PSacramento is correct, it is a "conscience matter." If a JW accepts a transfusion, they automatically disassociate themselves, and will be treated as disfellowshipped. Essentially, they remove themselves from the congregation voluntarily and will be punished. Sit in the back, attend all meetings, etc. and be shunned by family/friends until the elders decide they can have their "privileges" back.
What's so heartless about this "arrangement", is that when you need the love and support of family/friends the most — during a life-threatening situation — your choice is DEATH physically, spiritually, sometimes both.
The Witnesses shoot their wounded, then kick them around when they're down for good measure. How Christlike! (Not.)
~Sue