My mom is currently addicted to several meds. The main one being Vicadin. She will not admit it though. Its such a sad thing to see, if you say anything about it, she gets defensive and all hell breaks loose. I am not qualified to help her, she has to want to make the change. She currently is pennyless and living me my grandparents. She is a recovering alchoholic too, the addiction to meds came overtime, a cross addiction.
Pain med addiction is truly a big problem, not sure how to help, but I do understand what you are going thru, especially the "what to do" part.
Nikki