Stand your ground, BU2B and don't compromise for the sake of your own wife and kids. As an almost born in (my mother converted when I was around 2 years old) I have seen what this religion does to people. It makes the mentally and emotionally unstable and vulnerable WORSE! My mother NEVER EVER planned for the future and pissed away every dollar that came her way. Even on her deathbed in the year 2000,she thought that Armageddon was only a few weeks away and if she just held on she would live to see the New System. My sisters and I supported her for her entire life and she was given money by her parents until they both died. She worked a few years as a bus driver, a few years in a factory and a few years as a cashier. When her mother and great aunt died she got an inheritance of between $70,000.00 to $95,000.00 and that money was gone within a few years. After she died I found out that she was about $14,000.00 in debt because the credit card companies were trying to sue me for payment! In my opinion, there are many Jehovahs Witnesses that are very UNSTABLE and they are like a drowning person; if you get too close to them they will pull you down with them! ( Please don't take offense......I don't know your parents and I am only relating what happened to me.)