Why are you blaming the religion? People are crazy anywhere you go. No religion has perfect people! No matter what religion you choose or even if you are not in a religion, you have to be careful, who you marry, befriend, trust, etc!!!!! I don't understand this.
You have to admit that out of all the religions on this earth, the JW's try to live their life by the bible. No one is perfect and everyone has a choice of whether they want to be in that religion or not. I know people that are not JW's that live good, wholesome lifes. There are many in other religions that live good lifes and are good people and there are many everyone that are not.
Sounds to me that most people are using their own experiences to make decisions about a whole orginization. Everyone has their right to their opinion.
So since you are not a JW anymore, what are you?