Fantastic question.....lets go back to 1974, I was 16.
First Elder: Later found out he was having an affair with the mother, that I was babysitting for the entire time....5 boys. He's dead now.
Second Elder: A wife abuser, his daughter was close to 300 pounds at age 13, and his son wasn't far off. Update: His wife died of a heart attack in her 40's....don't know what happened to the kids.
3rd, elder was a bald headed idiot made an elder straight out of Bethel in his 20's. A real pisser. He wound up having a red headed kid that screamed bloody murder from the day he was born.
4Th, elder....real popular...good speaker, great sense of humor....also had a red headed kid that gave him hell. The only elder to apologize to me.....too little too late.
5Th elder: Lots of money, no kids, and his wife was a sweetheart... she sent me a wonderful card.
Second group assigned by the Society:
I have no idea, just 4 more men from another hall and they reversed the decision, after a torturous session that no teenager should ever have to go through, much less twice.
Outcome: The decision to DF was reversed. Outcome for me? Utter depression, panic, hate, loathing, ....of my self and JW's.....
What would any one expect from a 16 year old girl....I was destroyed.
It has taken years to recover, and sometimes I don't think I ever did.
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