gumby
I know what the rules are when it comes to those that leave the organ. but as it's been said already, some witnesses make up their own rightousness such as my wife and decides not to talk to family members that have left and not df's.
I reminded her hundreds of times to pick up the phone and just to see how her mother is doing and just tell her that you miss her.
Some feel the stricter they are, the holier they are.