Posts by Stealth453

if you miss a meeting, it's a big, big problem, yet if you miss field service for a day, or a week or even a fortnight nothing is said as long as you get that 1 hour in / month.

Stealth453

I am quite comfortable with neither being important.

Glad to be out.

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do i go with my gut instinct???(long, im sorry, but i need help)

by theinfamousone in

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so, simply put, i am in love... and love makes a man do some really stupid things.... love makes a pretty damn intelligent man feel pretty damn stupid quite often as well... so here's my story... i have been dating this girl for almost a year now... she is beautiful, sweet, and really just everything i imagined in a life mate... she lives with me... she doesnt work, while i do full time, and also go to school... i make very good money, so that does not bother me... but heres where it all begins... a few months ago, she went to cuba with her sisters, and imoved her into my place while she was gone, her idea, not mine.. now we keep our condoms in a certain place.... anyways, her box of condoms was gone, with her... when she comes back, our little box of condoms is empty.... instead of asking her about it, i explained it to myself as she must have given them to her sister.... .

while i am gone at work, i usually give her a call on my breaks... i notice that she never answers the phone between 6-8 pm.. home or cell... her explanation is that she is always in the shower... the problem with that is that she is always coming out of the shower when i get home.... i get home at around nine... so either she is taking a 3 hour shower or she is taking two showers a night..... she disappears off the face of the earth everytime she goes home to visit her family... like shes not home, shes not answering her phone and only ever calls me when she is in her car....her explanation is that she is at a cousins house.. conveniently, one that i do not know..... last night she went to a wedding... it was over at 11, i know this because she had told me, nd a friend of mine tht was there said that it ended then,,, it was a dry wedding, no dancing... very religious people... i was supposed to meet her at 130 today, i got to the train station that she was coming to, 15 minutes early and waited over an hour there... finally as i decied to walk back home, she gives me a call... i will be home at 5, meet me at the train.... of course, i have been calling her since last night at 11 to tell her i would meet her at 130 as she had planned... i made brunch for her, which is now in the garbage... i was scared shitless she had been hit by a car or dead since her phone has been off since last night.... i asked her why she is so late, i was helping move things until 3am last night... bull shit.. all the gifts were given prior to the weding and the bride and groom had already moved into their new place.... i know because she has told me in the past.....her phone was dead according to her... but all of the sudden, she is able to use it.... no charger, but she can use it..... i did confront her once, and she exploded on me!!!!

like screamed and screamed and said she was insulted i even asked... textbook defensive behaviour right????.

Stealth453

My gut feelings tell me that you have a problem on your hands. Sorry to say mate, but I think you need to cut this one loose. I had a similar experience many years ago, and although at the time I didn't want to face it, the girl I was engaged to, was screwing everything that walked, including my partner.

Shakespeare said it best...."me thinks (s)he protesteth too much".

I would cut my losses and run. Sorry mate for the pain that you must be feeling. if I can be of any assistance, please pm me.

Stealth

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New grandkid

by animal in

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friends

we are expecting the second grandkid next week, on 8-3... planned c-section.

my job is to watch our first one until all is done then take him in to meet his new sister.

he is 1 1/2, and my buddy.. well, i just got a call that my son thinks her water just broke.

Stealth453

We certainly do.

Peace

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New grandkid

by animal in

jw
friends

we are expecting the second grandkid next week, on 8-3... planned c-section.

my job is to watch our first one until all is done then take him in to meet his new sister.

he is 1 1/2, and my buddy.. well, i just got a call that my son thinks her water just broke.

Stealth453

I was talking about you Animal...always nice to meet a fellow biker.

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Die hard jw's see any problem with Sept km?

by carla in

will die hard jw's see any control issues with the sept km?

i once brought up the fact to my jw that jw's were not allowed to get together informally to do any kind of 'bible' studies without the approval of the elders, gb, etc.. he said that was totally ridiculous and false, more apostate lies.

this was long ago now and i'm not sure he even remembers saying it.

Stealth453

I'm kind of seeing two groups emerging in profile. They are Watchtower Witnesses and Jehovah's Witnesses. The Watchtower Witnesses support the Watch Tower Society no matter what. Jehovah's Witnesses question the Society, follow the Bible in context rather than by proof text,

Good point Gary. It makes a lot of sense. The watchtower only wants those that follow them blindly.

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Chicken Song poem adapted for the Memorial

by truthseeker in

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i had to get it out..... it's that time of year.

now that spring is in the air.

got my invites out.

Stealth453

Very funny.