Trust me i understand all the comments, my mother has written to the bethel, the circuit overseer, the governing overseers, the elders, she has 6 years of copied letters to show, dating from when she 1st had supisions, to when they were seen together, to him living with the woman, and more..., the elders saw her last week and said its too late to do anything now,and they appologise for making a mistake 6 years ago (they didnt believe her as the elder asigned to the case was my dads best friend for 30 years...typical...) and as they have lost contact with him, theres nothing they can do so now she has to stay "married" and cannot move on with her life. they say the same old rubbish... leave it up2 jehovah...Shes been a witnes for over 25 years, she just feels like giving up
Afrancis
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Im IMPOTENT a new way to beat the system
by Afrancis ina quick example i would like to share with you guys to show the way the elders are carrying on today.
my father a ministeral servant, had an affair with another woman, and is still with this other woman.
(shes not a jw, but a so called "bible study") he lives with her and when consulted by the elders and asked "are you having pre marital relations woth this woman" his reply is "i cant im impotent!
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Im IMPOTENT a new way to beat the system
by Afrancis ina quick example i would like to share with you guys to show the way the elders are carrying on today.
my father a ministeral servant, had an affair with another woman, and is still with this other woman.
(shes not a jw, but a so called "bible study") he lives with her and when consulted by the elders and asked "are you having pre marital relations woth this woman" his reply is "i cant im impotent!
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A quick example i would like to share with you guys to show the way the elders are carrying on today. My father a ministeral servant, had an affair with another woman, and is still with this other woman.(shes not a JW, but a so called "bible study") He lives with her and when consulted by the elders and asked "are you having pre marital relations woth this woman" his reply is "i cant im IMPOTENT!" yep he stills with her,living with her and the womans daughter and her son call him dad and grandad, he doesnt have anything to do with me and my older brother and siste
to make matters worse he still not disfellowdship. they said theres nothing they can do and the only way my mum can get her spiritual divorce is if he signs a written confession. This has been going on for 6 years.
Understand why i dont goto meetings anymore?
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Is there a named and shamed site?
by Afrancis ini would like to know if anyone has started a named and shamed site.
its that i know so much bad stuff thats happened in so many congregations involving elders, ministerial servants and others.
it would be great if someone could put them up ?
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hmm, thanks for all your replies, I never really thought about the consequences of ex-JWs i was merely thinking about the way the organisation is built. for example if a named and shamed site did exist i would be posting my experience of the way the elders shove everything under the carpet. (mum and dad married for 25 years dad a ministerial servant, cheated on mum , and up to now is still denying that he is with this other woman, he vanished himself off the earth, until he caught himself out by going to another congregation in another part of the country with the other woman, and introduced himself as this woman being his fiancee, when hes not even scriptually divorced. Then to make matters worse when he was confronted by elders about this so called relationship his reply was, im not sleeping with her... i cant ...im IMPOTENT!!! (yet hes living with her alone)Do u see where im coming from? this has been going on for a period of 8 years and no justice has be given especially to my mum still a genuine witness, and wants to move on with her life, witnesses have given statements of seeing them together and this has still not been resolved.
This is my idea of named and shames ps i would like to discuss this topic of my mum and dad in a new thread, full story click link
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Is there a named and shamed site?
by Afrancis ini would like to know if anyone has started a named and shamed site.
its that i know so much bad stuff thats happened in so many congregations involving elders, ministerial servants and others.
it would be great if someone could put them up ?
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yeh i know what your saying but dont that contridict themselves?number 1) what is a genuine witness doing in here reading stuff?
number 2) why would they waste their time in bringing down court orders if the beliefs are "wait on jehovah for he will bring judgement..."
number 3) if they were going to protest their innocence anyway, who are they going to protect? im sure they would have all the elders on there side, not batting an eyelid, and unless anything scriptual was proven nothing would be done anyway
and finally 4) ITS PLAIN JUSTICE FOR ALL OF US EX -WITNESSES THAT HAVE BEEN THROUGH sh** , HAD NO SUPPORT FROM THE "BLESSED ONES" AND HAVE JUST GIVEN UP
AMEN PS it could be done anominously, no usernames, or emails just name, congregation, country, and brief description/ essay!!! and Shame level out of 10 how will anyone one know?
maybe i should start one.....
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Is there a named and shamed site?
by Afrancis ini would like to know if anyone has started a named and shamed site.
its that i know so much bad stuff thats happened in so many congregations involving elders, ministerial servants and others.
it would be great if someone could put them up ?
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I would like to know if anyone has started a named and shamed site. Its that I know so much bad stuff thats happened in so many congregations involving elders, ministerial servants and others. it would be great if someone could put them up ? PS i understand the legal stuff but if there is proof i dont care!!!
please ad links if one exists