Nice comment BA2.
It is the "best of times and the worst of times" as mentioned. But it gets better and better as you get stronger and stronger in your own self worth.
The exJW community is just the best. I communicate in the very least weekly with many, of course Facebook makes that easy to keep in touch. We still meet up when we can.
I have a best friend who just left JW 6 mths ago. While her mate goes to the meeting we plan an adventure. We were going to a museum a few weeks ago, then I thought, let me contact an exJW family I know nearby and maybe they can meet us for a bite. Well they wanted to and we did...never made it to the museum and talked for 5 hours. She came home and said "I can't believe I talked for 5 hours to people I never met before."
I can't emphasize enough how healing it is to meet your fellow exJW's. Come to Tahoe!! We have cookies and champagne! (BA2 and 3rdgen ) Just made my hotel reservation...need to work out the details.