Posts by exwitless

The first day after my DA letter was sent, I felt like I had a 500 pound weight lifted off of me and a dark veil removed from my face. I could talk to people without being judgemental and feeling the "superior" attitude that JWs have. I have been DAd for about 2 months now and just in time - we are so looking forward to Christmas. I actually get to go to our office Christmas Party this year!

There are so many things to look forward to now that I'm not looking back over my shoulder all the time. I hope to work even harder at my newer hobby, singing. My hubby has been so helpful and supportive, he has even set up a little home studio where I can practice and record myself. I feel like I'm ready to pick back up in my life where I left off 14 years ago when we were duped by the borg.

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Lost filling is chilling!

by Virgochik in

oh, god, people, i knew what it was as soon as i chomped down on it.

yep, there's no mistaking that hunk of filling when you chew on it.

does anyone else dread going to the dentist?

exwitless

What I don't get, is why dental insurance is seperate from health insurance. Dentists are doctors, are they not? They are a specialist for the teeth just like a Pediatrist is a specialist for the feet.

No, not exactly. Dentists do specialize in teeth, but they are not Physicians. Dentists would be considered along the same lines as Optomotrists. Physicians are medical doctors trained in all general aspects of medicine, and some go on to become specialists, i.e. Cardiologist, Dermatologist, Neurologists. That's why medical insurance is always separate from Dental or Vision insurance.

Re: how to manage the time and pain, I've been there many times! I find it most helpful to bring my CD player and listen to my favorite CDs to help block out the sound of drilling, etc. It really helps the time go faster.

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The pressures of Jehovah's Witness life

by The wanderer in

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the pressures of jehovah's witness life monday was set aside to study for the tuesday night.

meeting.

wednesday was study night for the theo-.

exwitless

Wanderer - just an observation, not on the content of your posts, but on the format and formality of them: You have started dozens of threads in this manner; very formal writing, arrangement, etc. even with "Questions to Consider". Then you always put something on the end like "Please post your commentary for an interesting discussion..." (or something like that). To be honest, your posts are dripping with Watchtower style writing and format. Heck, you even have questions at the end of your so-called "articles" for us to consider. I'm not criticizing you or the fact that you want to post topics, but just consider RELAXING a little. Hang back, post some comments on other people's threads, post about fluffy bunnies and kittens or something. It would be nice to see posts from you that reveal more of the real "you", not just the formal Watchtower approach to discussing deep subjects. Respectfully ExW.

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College...(don't tell the elders)

by SB in

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hey all, i'm new to the board, and happy to have found it.

i'm going to college for the first time (i'm 25 yrs old).

does anyone have any advice on how to handle the challenge?

exwitless

She's really cool and loves to help people with that kind of stuff.

Hey, thanks for the compliment. Yep, just PM me and I'll be glad to give you any advice I can.

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Indiana,....represent!

by *jeremiah* in

out of curiousity, is there anyone on here that is in indianpolis, indiana, or the state of indiana for that matter?.

also was wondering if there are any exdubs who went to any indianapolis congregations in the 80's and 90's?.

exwitless

Yeah, come see our First Christmas Tree, too! Good to hear there are so many of you in Indiana. Come by for some and a or a , or just a cup of .

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Any Queensryche fans?

by exwitless in

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i planned a little overnight getaway trip for little drummer boy and i for next week.

we're going to see queensryche in concert.

i myself am not too familiar with most of their music, but ldb has been a fan for many years.

exwitless

I planned a little overnight getaway trip for Little Drummer Boy and I for next week. We're going to see Queensryche in concert. I myself am not too familiar with most of their music, but LDB has been a fan for many years. We got fourth row center stage seats! Can't wait!

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Wanted--online shopping sites/tips

by blondie in

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i don't get out much to do shopping due to my disability.

can you help me find some safe online sites to purchase:.

1) mousepads.

exwitless

I vote for www.amazon.com. I order from them all the time. They have almost anything you can want, and they are very reliable and you get your order pretty fast. I also like to shop at Barnes and Noble, www.bn.com for books, music, etc.

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Check out this amazing vocalist!! (I think she is also a JW)

by exwitless in

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she has an amazing voice.

you have to hear it for yourself.

and while you're listening, check out the book case behind her.

exwitless

Did you notice the bookcase?