I had that problem while 'inside' as some of you know. I had an almost militant attitude at the door, "you will hear me and my Governing Body inspired message regardless of your so called 'hint'!!!"
True story:
A friend was in a elevator, when a lady got in at one of the stops. First I must explain, he does not do hints, he is blunt and believes honesty above all else.
This woman reeks of perfume, and its almost suffocating. As the door opens on his floor he turns to her and says "Perfume is supposed to be subtle, not 'smell me if you like it or not" Her jaw dropped as he held her gaze while the door closed.
Maybe there is a lesson in there.
Agent Smith