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The reason there is no answer is because I haven't been on the computer, Dubla. Been busy with husband, and my kids. Since my primary obligation is the care of my family, I have not been able to respond to this thread. That ok with you, Love?
You are assuming I have no answer by my silence.
sure, thats fine with me.....fact is, i wasnt even adressing you specifically. i said no answer, and i meant no answer by any of the "supporters" on this thread......guess what? youre not the only one. you are the only one who attempted a reply though, so kudos.
You want a specific answer about what is the appropriate age to stop breast feeding. You want me to declare an age when breastfeeding is "sick" "twisted" and "wrong". You want a line. I will let you draw that line because you seem to feel so strongly about this matter.
actually, it may seem that way, but i really dont feel that strongly about this matter. i do think its a bit absurd that some people think its perfectly normal, but hey, everyone has a right to their own opinion. the reason you, and the other "supporters", wont give a definitive answer, is that it would back you into the wall. admittedly, it was a baited question, but one worth asking. the fact is, you do have a line, in your own mind, as does six, and whoever else. 8 yrs. old just isnt your line......but there IS a line, for everyone, there has to be, where you would consider it "sick" and worthy of an "ewww". unless of course you think its okay for a 30 yr. old man to breastfeed for "comfort" once a week at his moms place. theres a line, you just refuse to specify it. fair enough, and my point is made.
For me it will always be the reasons and motivations behind the actions of the Mom.
yes, youve said that....which is why i pointed out that the child DID say the mother forced him to breastfeed. doesnt that imply a wrongful motivation behind the mothers actions? apparently you dont think so. again, fair enough.
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Which would be more damaging to a child? Breast-feeding to 8 by your own free will...or being seperated from your mother for 6 months?
you said "own free will", and ill again point out that the child claimed to be forced into breastfeeding.....hardly the childs own free will. im sure seperating the child from the mother had much more to do with that fact, than the age factor, but thats just speculation on my part. if i saw a mother forcing her 8 yr. old to breastfeed, id probably call it abuse too......just my opinion though once again.
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