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  Why do I seem to attract some women? Not Interested

  by hambeak in

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  had a beautiful redhead today needed some work on her car.

  i took her home while we repaird he car and my god she was wanting to get together with me and i am not that good looking i am 55 salt and pepper hair, gay, but not a troll.

  i can't let my customers know my situation but it is flattering so just wanted to let you know it makes me feel good about myself.. .

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  I have seen your pics with Decki....you are very handsome!!
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  My wife has finally seen the light.

  by Ironhead in

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  for 18 months i have been at loggerheads with my wife over the wts.

  she has been the perfect watchtower slave even declaring that she'll never leave the truth.

  i decided not to interfere in her life, attacking the society, and the idiots in the hall, but recently things have changed for the best.

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  A BIG WELCOME TO THE WIFEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  I am so proud of your patience in letting her figure it out...and it shows a-lot htat you trusted her inteligence enough to let her do it on her own!!
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  My cousin has left the morons... all on his own!

  by dawg in

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  my cousin has left the borg, all on his own and he sounds like a recording of me!

  i'm no longer alone after 17 years; now i have someone to talk to and his experiences are alot like mine.

  to think, he refused to talk to me for over 17 years!

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  Hip-Hip-Hooray!!! Bring him on the boards!!!! This place really helps...just to see how much we are all similar and have the same feelings. I am really happy for you and him!
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  When is it time to tell your adult children get the Blank out?

  by avidbiblereader in

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  to me there is a definite difference in my generation and the one coming after me, when i graduated you basically had three choices.

  military, college or a fulltime job which meant more than 40 and you were expected to grow up, today kids are seen as postponing this for years, it reminds me of the proverbs 29:21 kjv says .

  21 he that delicately bringeth up his servant from a child shall have him become his son at the length.. when is it time to push the little birds from the nest and tell them to flap real hard?.

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  Yay!!! Good for you!! Now reward yourselves and turn his old room into something special for you and wifey!!
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  OK now, I'm really an apostate

  by dawg in

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  so, i go to my jw uncle's funeral for obvious reasons!

  after the funeral my family invites me to dinner, something we haven't done for some time (probably 8 years or so) as i'm considered disassociated not disfellowshipped.

  i guess this is allowed per the new jw policy but since that crap changes from time to time i'm not sure.

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  I like what you said...We may be concidered spiritually dead by them, but they are brain dead to us!! LOL!! Struck me as pretty funny!

  It is so easy to get labled apostate. It is their way of saying we don't swallow their crap.

  Sorry about your family, I am glad you are handleing it well though. How long have you been "out"?
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  A newbie's post...reposted since it got buried...Welcome!! Melly!

  by megsmomma in

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  this is from unique1....... (i made it into paragraphs for easy reading).

  i have used up my postings for today and think this one needs to be put up.

  mellybean left her first post on my most recent post.

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  BTTT
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  A newbie's post...reposted since it got buried...Welcome!! Melly!

  by megsmomma in

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  this is from unique1....... (i made it into paragraphs for easy reading).

  i have used up my postings for today and think this one needs to be put up.

  mellybean left her first post on my most recent post.

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  Oh my Melly....I am so sorry to hear this. There are a-lot of people who have gone (and going through) this. I am one of them. We are here for you to talk to and lean on. Don't give up!!! We are not the crazy ones!
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  A newbie's post...reposted since it got buried...Welcome!! Melly!

  by megsmomma in

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  this is from unique1....... (i made it into paragraphs for easy reading).

  i have used up my postings for today and think this one needs to be put up.

  mellybean left her first post on my most recent post.

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  This is from Unique1....... (I made it into paragraphs for easy reading)

  I have used up my postings for today and think this one needs to be put up. Mellybean left her first post on my most recent post. If you haven't used all of yours can you post this for me? Melly's part is in quotations. Thanks.
  
  
  Melly posted this on my page and I thought it deserved a post all its own. I hope you don't mind Melly but there are people here who have experience with this situation and will be more informative than I would.
  
  "Hello I am new to the forum! I am not an active JW anymore due to the hypocracry of the religion.

  To make a long story a little shorter I was raised as a JW and ended up marrying out of the truth right after high school. I ended up pregnant and disfellowshipped. Well I ended up staying with my ex-husband for four gruesome years and had two boys with him.

  That was about 6 years ago. I had remarried about 6 mos after the divorce to a very new to the truth brother. We did really well and he was a great step father to my two children that my ex never cared for or supported me with. Up until about a year ago.

  I always allowed the children to visit my ex's mother all the time even though she stabbed me in the back all the time. Now she is a JW, but shouldn't be! She has been allowed to keep going to meetings and associating with everyone while harrassing me and making false accusations against me and my husband and telling the elders that my husband and I abuse and neglect our SON, she only cares about the first son, not the second!

  Well she called the police and child protection agencys numerous times throughout the year on us and all the times the authorities would dismiss the findings because there was no findings of any abuse or neglect in our home! Because of this I stopped letting her see the two kids because she was trying to seperate our family that we were getting back on track due to some personal and financial problems.

  Well just recently she took me to court to get visitation rights to see the boys. The elders didn't seem to care that she was doing this to us, probably because we don't go to meetings anymore, but I did not show up at the court, so she ended up getting papers on going about and getting custody of my two sons.

  For a year now, I have suffered from her games and the congregation won't do anything about it. My parents go to the same congregation up there and the elders made my dad step down because they think that he is part of this and that the ex mother in law should be able to see her grandkids.

  Yesterday~March 27th, I ended up giving up my parental rights due to depression and thoughts of suicide and not being able to fight her anymore. I just can't believe this can go on in a religion that condones going to court. Why can't she be disfellowshipped? She even has people in the congregation on her side and helping her do this. she's lying to them about us as parents.

  I am a great parent, my husband and I had a son together and we have never abused or neglected any of our sons, she is so full of shit, her nose is brown!!! :) Can someone help me try to cope with this horrible situation since I do not have really any friends due to leaving this cult!! "
  
  I think first you should seek counseling and soon and hopefully get yourself better so you can get your parental rights back. Second try meetup.com and see if there are any EX-JW's in your area you can meet up with. You can also look in the apostafest section of this board
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  Some of you said my baby Megan is cute..Here is more:

  by megsmomma in

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  thanks for saying she is cute...i must agree, but i am biased!

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  So sorry anewme (((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))) I have an 8 year old in the Cracktower too....so I understand. I do feel so blessed to have the chance to "do it right" with this baby though. I appreciate it so much more.
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  Some of you said my baby Megan is cute..Here is more:

  by megsmomma in

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  thanks for saying she is cute...i must agree, but i am biased!

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  megsmomma

  Ok all...I am done showing off!! (BTW, I just learned how to post pics....so now you are all in trouble!!)