If a woman is being abused, it is best for her to grab her chcildren and go stay someplace else for a while. If aomeone abuses their spouse, then the children are being emotionally abused as well. To put some physical distance between the two warring parties is the best thing that can be done because then it prevents escalation.
Counseling should be sought in the case of abuse of any kind, immediately.
My question is this: if this man is studying with the JW's, and he's behaving this way, what 'remedy' does the study conductor have? Where are the elders concerning HIS behavior?
Men can be attracted to the JW lifestyle because of the submission that women/wives are supposed to exhibit. That means that if the woman in his life chooses NOT to accept this role, there WILL be problems that will NOT go away.
While I think it might be good for your friend to have you, and a discussion board, they are NOT a substitute for professionsl help. AND, it's important that the professional that is choosen have more-than-average knowledge/experience with cult exiting.
I repeat for emphasis---cyber support systems are NO substitue for professional intervention in a situation that could could escalate. And it isn't fair for us, either, to be put in that position, which you haven't as of yet.
Best wishes to you and your friend.
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