I can speak from experience. When I was 17-18, I would only go after married men. And I got them too. I think what I did was horrible, but then again...no one held a gun to their heads and they were much older than I was. If they wanted to be loyal, they could have. In my opinion, they had to have been bad husbands to start off with.
I liked them because I believe I had an affinity for breaking every rule I could. It wasn't the married part that turned me on, it was the "boy would my dad and mom be pissed at me!!" feeling that I loved. That, I believe, comes from being raised in a rigid JW household that wouldn't even allow be to talk on the phone with boys, so I started to have this rule-breaking fetish...if you will. As for the men, they weren't particularly the sexiest things on earth. They were objects of rule-breaking.
As for now, I hate people who cheat and people who go after married men and women. I also believe that I don't deserve the good man I eventually married. He is so loyal. Believe it or not, he is the only "taken" guy that ever turned me down. He was dating someone when we met and he didn't give me the time of day, though I tried and played dirty. Nope, didn't work. Later once they broke up on their own, he said, "so how about that number?" By him rejecting me, I realised that I'd found someone who would be loyal. He was absolutely the only guy who's ever turned me down and I was so damned impressed! Guys, it pays not to cheat!!! You will be even yummier if you say no thanks!!
Today, he tells me about these little girls who flirt with him. He's even the joke of his colleagues. He is known as the only guy who talks about his wife and flashes his wedding band when girls come around, to try to ward them off. Of course, this only makes them like him even more, lol. I am not worried about it. I can understand why they would like him so much, and I know that they get their feelings hurt when he rejects them. I used to play their same game, so I can't blame them. He gets so embarrassed when they do it though, just like he did once when I was trying to get him to cheat on his ex girlfriend.
He is a shy guy who is very honest and sensitive. I really didn't deserve that, what with Karma and all. I figure I'll probably die young or whatever to pay for what I did, lol. Or maybe the strict JW upbringing is partly to blame, so I get off the hook easy? After all, I only liked married men because it was the worst thing I thought I could do, and it felt so good to keep such a big secret. It was all about hiding a secret and knowing how shocked people would be if they found out that such a clean-cut little JW girl could do such a thing.
