Children don't understand why they have grandparents who don't want to have a close relationship with them or their parents.
I only meant that my children could figure out that i was not welcome. Not a very healthy situation.
My two children know only a very small amount about the witnesses they are both University Science people one is doing post graduate work and the other is graduating next year and then she is pursuing a law degree. So the shunning did not work in my case it only strengthened my resolve,