Regarding foreplay, I recall that it was regarded as a matter of conscience as to whether it should be indulged in, but it was one of those things that they wanted to qualify with a remark about keeping in mind Jehovah's standards.
mimimimi
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Meeting topics that cover sex
by Libelle inoccassionally the mr will say that "some visitors are shocked because we will talk about sex, even with children in attendance.
" what exactly are they talking about in these meetings.
things like "don't masturbate" or things like if you position yourself like this, and your woman like this while having sex, then you're fornicating?.
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mimimimi
Yup, I'm with mythbuster. Put it down. You don't need it. See my post on another one of your is weed bad or good threads - you have 3 of them.
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mimimimi
My experience with weed is that it makes it hard to concentrate on anything or get anything done. I have not smoked any in over 26 years and have no intention of doing so again, but at one time was a daily smoker. During that time, I woke up every morning with a headache and had a hard time getting up because I felt so bad. My advice is to pass it up.
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@ prodigal son - aren't glad you are out of that. There is an elder in my community who is an ex-Marine sergeant. Talk about a person without mercy! He likes to brag that he is seen as the disciplinarian among the elders.
Sick, sick cult and its sick, sick elders!
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Could you die without anyone noticing?
by AK - Jeff innot long ago i had 100 'friends' - or so i thought.
i certainly had 100 or more people who said they were friends.
then i left a cult, and found myself with very few friends - those kind in the flesh, in the community.
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Well, I guess what I needed to say is that they would all notice right away. I love solitude, too, and have lots of time to myself as I work at home and the majority of my days are spent alone till hubby comes home from work. Though my kids are grown and moved out (one son bought the house next door), all the above are a big part of my life. I'm very lucky. I have a couple of good friends, too, that I care a great deal about, but we don't talk to/see each other very often. But we are there for each other when needed and have a great deal of affection for one another.
Since my husband was not a witness and my children chose not to be, I was in much better shape than a lot of people on here who only had witnesses in their lives. I feel for so many on here. I hope all on here in that position can make new friends, form new relationships, and have happy, fulfilled lives.
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Could you die without anyone noticing?
by AK - Jeff innot long ago i had 100 'friends' - or so i thought.
i certainly had 100 or more people who said they were friends.
then i left a cult, and found myself with very few friends - those kind in the flesh, in the community.
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mimimimi
Nope, not me. My dog would be devastated. My husband would be, too, as well as my sons and daughter-in-law, grandson, sisters, mother, next door neighbors, and all the doctors I do dictation for.
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Sex before marriage. feeling guilty
by frigginconfused inheres the situation.... met a girl i am tottally infatuated with.
i could just hang out with her and not have sex but she has not been in a relationship in a year and shes pretty horny.
im a normal dude so i dont want to refuse her.. i cant decide if im rationalizing my feelings.
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mimimimi
I am with Mrs. Jones and leprechaun. Though I have no problem with sex before marriage, or better termed sex without marriage, you have to practice safe sex and avoid STD's, HIV, and pregnancies. And definitely do as Mrs. Jones says and educate yourself regarding sexuality. Theres a wealth of information out there, and it didn't come from the Watchtower Society either (theirs is called misinformation).
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Sex before marriage. feeling guilty
by frigginconfused inheres the situation.... met a girl i am tottally infatuated with.
i could just hang out with her and not have sex but she has not been in a relationship in a year and shes pretty horny.
im a normal dude so i dont want to refuse her.. i cant decide if im rationalizing my feelings.
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mimimimi
I haven't had time to read all the posts, but I wanted to say one thing. I would never marry someone I had never had sex with before marriage. How do you know what you are getting?
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mimimimi
Nathan Natas,
The first part of the article states he was interviewed by a reporter from the Globe Democrat, which was a St. Louis newspaper for many years. It is now defunct.
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Do You Constantly Think About The Witnesses At This Point in Your Life?
by minimus ini was just talking to a guy who's been df'd for years and he still talks about things like it was yesterday in watchtowerland.. are you still consumed by your jw past?.
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mimimimi
Nope, sure don't. My husband and children are not JW's and they are what my life is made up of, and my grandson of course. I only think about them when I am talking to my extended family who are in or when my nieces and nephews say things about it on facebook. But the majority of the time, I do not think about it at all. Life is good.