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Bethelites?

by VanillaMocha73 in

did anyone know fred curry?

he left bethel in the 90s, injury, went to live with mom.

scott zeida?

depressed

no, don't remember any of those people. I was there for about 5 years in the mid 90's.

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Something creepy just happened here.........................

by Warlock in

as some of you know, my office is a converted garage.

the day has been fairly still here, and all of a sudden the front door started shaking like someone was trying to open it, as if it was locked.

when i heard it start to shake i looked up and the door was moving as if someone was trying to get in.

depressed

the next time that you hear the doors rattle, just ask it what it wants. Say, "Come out here and lets chat". If you can provide me with the lottery numbers, that would be ideal!

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update on my divorce situation

by depressed in

i'm shocked!

if you remember my experience, in a nutshell, basically my ex-bethelite ex pioneer husband cheated on me with an older "worldly woman" from his job and left me suddenly.

i had no idea that we had trouble with our marriage, however, when i discovered the love letters from the other woman, he moved out, and a week after that, i received divorce papers.

His whore other woman had sent me another email where she tells me that she was just lying and that she's just his friend. Yeah, "just friends" co sign on car loans, and they kiss each other in the office.

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update on my divorce situation

by depressed in

i'm shocked!

if you remember my experience, in a nutshell, basically my ex-bethelite ex pioneer husband cheated on me with an older "worldly woman" from his job and left me suddenly.

i had no idea that we had trouble with our marriage, however, when i discovered the love letters from the other woman, he moved out, and a week after that, i received divorce papers.

depressed

I wonder - how do people change so drastically? My soon to be ex husband used to love me, and he'd tell me. We never once had a fight were divorce was even mentioned. He used to tell me that he loved me everyday. Now he's laughing at my pain with the bitch. I don't understand how his conscience doesn't bother him - especially being raised in the borg. He must be really evil now if he's laughing at my pain, and using my pain as an indication of how "touched in the head" I am.

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update on my divorce situation

by depressed in

i'm shocked!

if you remember my experience, in a nutshell, basically my ex-bethelite ex pioneer husband cheated on me with an older "worldly woman" from his job and left me suddenly.

i had no idea that we had trouble with our marriage, however, when i discovered the love letters from the other woman, he moved out, and a week after that, i received divorce papers.

depressed

anyway, my soon to be ex husband's dad is the PO of the congregation, his mom is a regular pioneer, his sister is in Gilead with her husband. What I'd like to know is that since my soon to be ex husband was in bethel, and a "fully baptized" JW, could his family now ex communicate or disfellowship him on the basis of this email alone??

Do we know if the witnesses still disfellowship based on astrological readings/?

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update on my divorce situation

by depressed in

i'm shocked!

if you remember my experience, in a nutshell, basically my ex-bethelite ex pioneer husband cheated on me with an older "worldly woman" from his job and left me suddenly.

i had no idea that we had trouble with our marriage, however, when i discovered the love letters from the other woman, he moved out, and a week after that, i received divorce papers.

depressed

anyway, my soon to be ex husband's dad is the PO of the congregation, his mom a pioneer and his sister and her husband are in gilead.

My soon to be ex husband (who went to visit the fortune teller with the other woman) is baptized and used to serve in bethel. Is this email cause for disfellowship? Can his dad like now see the damn light?

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update on my divorce situation

by depressed in

i'm shocked!

if you remember my experience, in a nutshell, basically my ex-bethelite ex pioneer husband cheated on me with an older "worldly woman" from his job and left me suddenly.

i had no idea that we had trouble with our marriage, however, when i discovered the love letters from the other woman, he moved out, and a week after that, i received divorce papers.

depressed

So his "worldly" bitch emails me again. She tells me that her letter is a lie, and that I behaved "crazy" because I forwarded the email to his witness parents. After I ignore her, she sends me another email. She claims that she did not commit adultery, (yeah right), and again says that I'm imagining things. Instead, she forwards me another email where she mentions that my ex husband and her went to see an astrologist!!! I gladly forwarded the email again to his parents!! This is an exact copy of the email I forwarded to his parents: (By the way, the text messages she refers to are the ones I caught were she mentions to my husband that she'll be thinking of him wrapped around her, and that she wants to have his little girl) Also, I took out my name and substituted it with "depressed"

To witness parents:

from bethel to astrology. unbelievable.

-------- Original Message --------

Subject:	Explaination of the text messages - now you know
Date:	Fri, 16 Mar 2007 17:09:46 -0400 (EDT)
From:	xxx@aol.com (The other "worldly" woman)
To:	depressed (me -the poster)@xxxx.com

In response to your current comment on the text messages: Ever since the first time you asked me about the text messages I knew if you heard the truth you would never believe it. This is what happened - believe it or not ...... On a Thursday night in early March I had an appointment to see a tea left reader in Yonkers at Katies Cottage on Central Park Ave - Her name is Roisen - She only works on Tuesday and Thursday nights and I am never able to go because it would require me to get a babysitter (and I am too cheap to pay a babysitter to go with my friends... ) - anyway, my kids had plans and I really wanted to go so I made an appointment for 2 people to have readings. Another friend really wanted to go too but canceled at the last minute. I was very disappointed because I really wanted to go for months and now that I had a free evening and an appointment & I had to go by myself. I know many people who have been to her and had very upsetting readings - I really didn't want to go to the 6pm appt by myself. I asked a friend from work to go - He was teaching class that night and couldn't go - I asked another friend from work to go - She wanted to go (and eventually DID go but not that night as she too was busy) so I asked another person from work - he too was into astrology etc and thought it would be fun - That would be "depressed's" husband. We took separate cars to the appointment. When I arrived I found he was already there. We had a short discussion about who would go first (if you go first, after the 30 minute reading you have to sit by yourself, analyzing the info you just got - all by yourself - if you go second, when you come out you have someone to talk to at least). We decided He would go first. He came out and said he thought he was going to throw up - I went in for my reading - when I emerged 20 minutes later we shared the stories of our readings over a Guiness (it is an Irish Pub and I still had 35 minutes before I needed to retrieve my kids) ..... the two stories were so funny, heartbreaking and similar - also a good chunk of it was crap, which we both knew. We spent 34-40 minutes talking about the readings and went home. The next few days we joked about it on and off all day at work - because of the nature of the work we did sometimes we would see each other all day and sometimes not for days - when business things were going on we would text each other instead of call - saving time - sometimes we texted the joking references from the readings too - Unfortunately depressed got caught in the cross fire from the readings and the text messages - they were always sent in good fun, never with the intention to hurt anyone - I had no idea their home life was so volatile or I never would have asked him to go to begin with - I had met depressed in person and had been in their company as a couple - I never knew their relationship was in trouble - actually, it was none of my business if it was - well, she intercepted the messages, when he was sleeping and flew off the deep end - breaking the phone in two pieces, shoving the work boots down the garbage shoot - you know all the stories - That is where the text messages came from - PS - The reading was 100% "on" about some things - other things she said just made me laugh like "you will have a baby girl with him - I laughed - with "who" I asked - Roisen replied with "Your fine looking Scorpio Friend ....... That is the joke - that is where the messages came from - believe it or not .....In HIS reading, she told him "You will have two sons and a daughter - When we sat down to compare notes on the readings we found that funny, weird, creepy, crap. You can pass judgement all day long about whether or not we should have gone, whether or not we should have joked about it, whether or not I was over the line about texting the jokes back and forth - I can see that debate but it was really done very innocently and got way out of hand - depressed flew off the end of the ship and never returned - she was last seen spinning around in a circle like a crazy person. Well, the wait is over - that is what happened. I had no idea (The Tea Leaf lady didn't tell me all this would be the outcome a year later). Look - I didn't just fall off the Apricot truck - was I out of line for having an inside joke with a married man? Maybe - but I had met depressed - we had talked a few times - I would never have done it if I thought for a minute this would be the result. Depressed? I am sorry for texting your husband about an inside joke - it got out of hand and you got hurt. I am sorry. PS - Depressed? You should go and see her - she is across the street from Yonkers Raceway - Tues and Thurs from 6pm - 9pm - The cost is $30 for the reading and for $10 more you can have anything you want to eat on the dinner menu (I recommend the Shepards Pie) - it will change your life! It sure changed mine!

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update on my divorce situation

by depressed in

i'm shocked!

if you remember my experience, in a nutshell, basically my ex-bethelite ex pioneer husband cheated on me with an older "worldly woman" from his job and left me suddenly.

i had no idea that we had trouble with our marriage, however, when i discovered the love letters from the other woman, he moved out, and a week after that, i received divorce papers.

depressed

so I finally did it.

I forwarded her email to her JW presiding overseer/ regular pioneer parents! I included this message before her email:

Wow - you lied to cover up for her.
I've already started praying so that Jehovah may exercise mercy upon you, since you've obviously been supporting your son in his adultery.
This will be the last time that I contact you.
Good bye.

What do you think that their reaction will be? I know that they won't contact me, that's for sure. But do you think that they might actually start to believe that their son had an affair?

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update on my divorce situation

by depressed in

i'm shocked!

if you remember my experience, in a nutshell, basically my ex-bethelite ex pioneer husband cheated on me with an older "worldly woman" from his job and left me suddenly.

i had no idea that we had trouble with our marriage, however, when i discovered the love letters from the other woman, he moved out, and a week after that, i received divorce papers.

depressed

hmm, maybe that's why his father told me that if my local elders call him, that he's not giving away any information. It does make somewhat sense. Howver, I don't understand why she has to lie about everything else

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update on my divorce situation

by depressed in

i'm shocked!

if you remember my experience, in a nutshell, basically my ex-bethelite ex pioneer husband cheated on me with an older "worldly woman" from his job and left me suddenly.

i had no idea that we had trouble with our marriage, however, when i discovered the love letters from the other woman, he moved out, and a week after that, i received divorce papers.

depressed

I'm shocked! If you remember my experience, in a nutshell, basically my ex-bethelite ex pioneer husband cheated on me with an older "worldly woman" from his job and left me suddenly. I had no idea that we had trouble with our marriage, however, when I discovered the love letters from the other woman, he moved out, and a week after that, I received divorce papers. So after 10 years of marriage, it all comes suddenly to an end.

Now, remember - he comes from a very "spritual" family. His father is the PO, his mother regular pioneers, and his sister is in Gilead. So I figured that although I had not been attending meetings, that I would be able to call his parents for support. Keep in mind that they live in a different State. Well, my soon to be ex husband got offended after he found out that I did this, and he proceeded to contact his parents again to slander my reputation, and blame me for the demise of our marriage. Since then - since last year March, the entire family has treated me as if I'm disfellowshipped. They are approving the divorce, without telling me why. However, last time I spoke with them - this past december, they absolutely did not believe that their precious son was having an affair. You can search on my earlier postings to get more details on my story.

Well, guess what? Just this past weekend, I received a "credit" tip from my bank, informing me that there has been a major change in our credit. Well, when I take a look, lo and behold, there is the other woman's address listed on his credit report! Apparently, they bought a vehicle together.

So do you know what I did?? I took the entire credit report and emailed it to his entire family - including the nuts in Gilead, and I told them, "Do you see the other woman's address??? He is having an affair. Hope you are happy accusing me of being the liar"

What was that for?? lol

His "worldly" other woman sent me the following email: (J is my soon to be ex husband):

Depressed, I can see you have your facts all wrong again [...]

I can see that is killing you not to have all the details on what J is up to - It has been a year since he ended his relationship with you and I can only imagine this is a difficult time for you. Let me see if I can clear up a few misconceptions for you.

It was not J parents that financed his divorce it was me. I paid for the very expensive lawyer. We flew to Michigan with my boys in late August to meet Jeff's parents and they were surprisingly warm and welcoming of his new family. We wanted to be sure to go and visit before I got too far along in my pregnancy - Just incase you get another email alert on the credit report from Babies R Us, we bought an additional crib and changing table for the nursery - no one was more surprised than us that we are having twin girls (due on or around May 14th) - Just incase you are worried about my tired ol' eggs, we had an amnio and surprisingly for a gal my age the girls are healthy!

Jeff's parents did give him a down payment for the new minivan but I co-signed for the loan - want to be sure that our precious cargo is safe driving back and forth - Oh, we bought a bigger house together too - in the same neighborhood where our other house was - we just needed more room for our growing family.

Did you want me to send you a picture of the house? Did you really want a picture of me? I am fatter than the last time you saw me but I am happy to send one if you want one - Also, if you continue to need details on your ex-husband (Did the judge grant your divorce on November 9th???) I can add you to the distribution list for the baby pictures and birth announcements.

We exchanged rings on the beach this summer - it was a beautiful ceremony with our families and closest friends. I can see that your emails to his sister and parents have cause quite a chuckle as you have continued to represent yourself as the "Crazy, disconnected, delusional, bitch ex-wife" everyone knows you to be - it is ok though, we all just laugh about it now. We laughed at the phone call home to Michigan - it was just further proof to the parents on how delusional and disconnected you are from your old life - you didn't have a clue then, and you don;t now. For the record? It doesn't matter whose fault it is - it is over and has been for years! Jeff's parents have further evidence that he made the right choice to end his relationship with you as you continue to prove yourself to be very unstable.

In the future, if you have any additional questions about what is going in my neck of the woods, why don't you just ask me. I have not emailed you because you asked me not to. I am happy to share it all with you if you really want to know - you just have to ask.

Maybe today is a good time to get on with the rest of your life - you seemed like you were making some progress there for a while - maybe it is time to return to therapy for a little refresher, pick me up!

Best,

Colleen (she uses my soon to be ex husband's last name)

End of email

So do you guys think that this is "proof enough" ??

Funny thing is that I don't know if she's lying or not. I spoke to his father just 3 months ago, and he was still denying that his son had an affair. However, the father told me that if the elders contact him, that he's not giving them any information. Now that latter part of his comment really raised my eyebrows. But, I know that she lied in this email. For example, she claims to have gotten married, but we are not even divorced. Also, she claims that she's having twins, but she's 46 years old. (I guess everything is possible, but who knows). She also claims that she paid for the divorce, but his dad told me that he did. And another thing - why couldn't they just tell me what's going on??

Anyway, I thought that I log this experience here, just to show the hypocrites for who they are. I'm still deeply shocked at the religious hipocracy more so than I am about my husband's adultery.