In Australia if a young man decides to grow facial hair it is seen as a sign of rebellion. Simple as that.
I wonder how much Gilette and similar companies are paying the WT to keep this unfair rule understandig
kifoy
i often wonder about the unwritten rule in kingdom halls that a witness should be in dress clothes and brothers cannot have beards (the beard rule i think is pretty much us-only though).
sure, they won't stop you from coming to a meeting in your work clothes and they might even treat you fine.
but, if you want to go anywhere in the congregation (i.e.
In Australia if a young man decides to grow facial hair it is seen as a sign of rebellion. Simple as that.
I wonder how much Gilette and similar companies are paying the WT to keep this unfair rule understandig
kifoy
ok its time to recount all your favorite crazy jw urban legends, ill start i remember this one was told to me after i had left the org, there was a newly married couple, they were good little dubs, evil mother in law lived with them, she did not want to convert or study, well time went on they had a baby, and mother in law was into some spiritual stuff, unknown to jw mommy and daddy.
anyway jw mommy wakes up one night to find little baby dub sitting inside the fish tank with most of the water taken out and there was some kind of evil spirit present, mommy dub yells out jemimas name and breaks free with baby dub.
evil mother in law is asked to leave their happy home.
CD:
OK, so he is arrested for attacking many women in the park. Why would the police ask him about a woman he didn't attack?
Yes, the same question also came to my mind.
I don't know if I got the "correct" story. Maybe it was not the police who asked. And if so, how did they know who that woman was? And how did she know that it was her he was talking about (unless he knew her by name), she was walking alone and did apparently not see the men beside her. And how did the story then get out?
OK, so maybe he volunteered the story to the police of the woman he didn't attack.
There's no point in that either. Why would he tell about not attacking a woman who was not walking alone? Is it so uncommon for a woman to walk alongside two men? Or maybe he could "see" that they were not really men? Maybe, by seeing this woman and her men, he saw the "Tooth" emediately and went to the police straight away and turned himself in?
No, I don't know. It's strange.
kifoy
ok its time to recount all your favorite crazy jw urban legends, ill start i remember this one was told to me after i had left the org, there was a newly married couple, they were good little dubs, evil mother in law lived with them, she did not want to convert or study, well time went on they had a baby, and mother in law was into some spiritual stuff, unknown to jw mommy and daddy.
anyway jw mommy wakes up one night to find little baby dub sitting inside the fish tank with most of the water taken out and there was some kind of evil spirit present, mommy dub yells out jemimas name and breaks free with baby dub.
evil mother in law is asked to leave their happy home.
Another story came to my mind. I don't remember all of it. It was quite long. But it was said to have happend in a spanish/portugeese (I think) little town. It was a catholic town, at least. When I heard it back then I thought it was sooo funny
The catholic church had a problem with this town, because all the priests that were sent to this place, one by one became JWs. The legend goes on to tell the story of each and one of them.
I remember only this one partly: One priest, along with his sexton(?), was standing at a grave (or something) that had an inscription from Matthew 23:27 ("Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you are like whitewashed tombs which on the outside appear beautiful, but inside they are full of dead men's bones and all uncleanness.")
And the sexton was thinking of how it reminded him of the priest... or something. Well both the priest and the sexton became JWs, of course.
Anyone heard this story? Maybe someone has got the story in full?
It would have been nice to read the complete story again.
kifoy
ok its time to recount all your favorite crazy jw urban legends, ill start i remember this one was told to me after i had left the org, there was a newly married couple, they were good little dubs, evil mother in law lived with them, she did not want to convert or study, well time went on they had a baby, and mother in law was into some spiritual stuff, unknown to jw mommy and daddy.
anyway jw mommy wakes up one night to find little baby dub sitting inside the fish tank with most of the water taken out and there was some kind of evil spirit present, mommy dub yells out jemimas name and breaks free with baby dub.
evil mother in law is asked to leave their happy home.
If he didn't attack her, why was he arrested?
He had apparently raped many other women in that park.
W.Once: Was it my story you said to be true?
kifoy
ok its time to recount all your favorite crazy jw urban legends, ill start i remember this one was told to me after i had left the org, there was a newly married couple, they were good little dubs, evil mother in law lived with them, she did not want to convert or study, well time went on they had a baby, and mother in law was into some spiritual stuff, unknown to jw mommy and daddy.
anyway jw mommy wakes up one night to find little baby dub sitting inside the fish tank with most of the water taken out and there was some kind of evil spirit present, mommy dub yells out jemimas name and breaks free with baby dub.
evil mother in law is asked to leave their happy home.
there is also a fake poem by Victor HUGO where he praises JWs, but how many checked that he died in 1885 ?
Victor Hugo uses Jehovah's name once in Les miserables, at least in my Norwegian translation.
So of course a witness would take credit for that!
I remember one story I heard. Don't know where it was from, or when, but it was something like this:
A rapist was loose in the town/city, and especially one park or forest area was his favourite crime scene. A pioneer sister was on her way home (or to) FS or a bible study one dark evening. And she had to go through that specific park. She prayed to Jah, and went on. In the middle of the park, she met this dangerous man, but he did not attack her. Later, after he was arrested, he was asked why he did not attack this woman (I always wondered how anyone could know what he did not do...?).
The rapist answered: But she was not alone, she was walking along with two men on her side.
Wow, I remember being so impressed...
kifoy
i often wonder about the unwritten rule in kingdom halls that a witness should be in dress clothes and brothers cannot have beards (the beard rule i think is pretty much us-only though).
sure, they won't stop you from coming to a meeting in your work clothes and they might even treat you fine.
but, if you want to go anywhere in the congregation (i.e.
brothers cannot have beards (the beard rule I think is pretty much US-only though)
Nope. The beards were (an still is, I guess) an issue here in Norway as well. If you had a beard, or something other hairy stuff in your face, you were not to have any privileges. One new brother in my hall (really nice guy with adorable family, also new), had a moustache for a long time. One day he shaved it off. Two weeks later (or so it seemed) he was an MS.
I can't remember any dress rules, though.
kifoy
You know same old prayer over and over again doesn't really mean much.
They sure are.
But instead of common prayer lines, like some churches, the JWs got individual prayer lines.
I can recall many brothers doing almost the same prayer over and over. Not the same as the other brothers, but they tend to stick to the same lines everytime.
Don't they?
Not very much meaning in that either
kifoy
[Edit: BTW, welcome Renegade! ]
how many of you courted as jws?
did you have chaperones?
if so, do you adhere to that rule all of the time?
Thank you, shell
Yes, I protected their honour. And some of them were really great to be with (meening I did not feel like the third wheel), and they thanked me and all.
But usually (with most of them and others), I felt that they would not bring me along unless they had the use for me or felt they had no choice, or something.
Never had any use for a chaperone myself, that's for sure..
kifoy
how many of you courted as jws?
did you have chaperones?
if so, do you adhere to that rule all of the time?
I usually was the chaperone...
The good thing about it was that someone would spend time with me that way...
kifoy
this is the third elder that tells me that the body of elders will recommend me as an elder in the next visit of the co.. what do you think i should do?
some facts:.
i am still 'in' because of my family.i am ms.i am doing 10+ fake hours (well, some months it is fake), so they see my "spiritual" progress.-ootb.
I say no -> My family is unhappy -> BAD
Who will be unhappy? Your wife or your kids? It certainly is more status in being an elders wife... so I can see her point of view
But if you tell your kids that if you become an elder, they need to be good examples to all the other kids in the cong... I think that the kids might think that their father not being an elder, is a good thing...
And if you sit down and explain to your family that you rather spend that time with them, and really do that. (But then, of course, it is a "privilege"...). You can say that you need more time, and might say yes the next time.
And then, before next time, reduce you FS time to right below 10 hours, but just enough to avoid questions. Maybe you can allow your kids (depends on their age) to do something that an elder's child should not do (nothing really bad, but something that will make them/you a bad example).
I don't think this will make your family too unhappy, will it? And My father was an elder, and I sort of wish he wasn't.
Personally I think, as long as you just keep up your appearances for your family, you should not say yes.
kifoy