Posts by Abandoned

People cheat. It sucks. They lie. That sucks too. It's hard when a relationship ends. The feeling of being used is foremost in your mind. The humiliation. The questions. The loneliness.

But time moves forward. People drift apart. If someone isn't interested, they're not interested and wishing it were different isn't going to change it a bit.

So, even though it's hard. Even though you can't imagine things looking better one day, you have to say "to hell with her" and move on. Feel the pain. Feel the hurt. Let it wash over you and experience it. Concentrate on it until you've felt it in every imaginable way. And then, do everything in your power to let it go.

One day, when you're holding hands with someone who is planning on staying. When you're visiting that tiny corner of the world that you've always wanted to see. When you're taking that class you never thought you'd have time for. Or when you're looking out at the ocean from the patio of your dream house, you'll look back on this disappointment as a tiny bump on the roadway of your life. Hell, you might not even remember it at all.

But, to get to that point, you have to accept it, embrace it, and let it go.

Good luck.

If I'm just over-thinking things right now, then forget about what I said....

((((((((((((nicolaou))))))))))

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I Have a Commercial Janitorial Service - And Proud of It !

by flipper in

jw
friends

i hope well.

this is a subject i've been wanting to approach for awhile as i've noticed on the board at times there have been wisecracks about janitors who were jehovah's witnesses .

now , hey, i'm real, have a good sense of humor, and can take a joke like anyone, be the brunt of a good joke, hell, i laugh at myself when i work alone at nights- just to keep entertained !

Abandoned

ABANDONED- Hey man, I'm your friend ! Dude, remember that. We can write or talk anytime. My lines always open friend ! , Peace out, Mr. Flipper

Thanks! I just about called you. I know something will give eventually.

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I Have a Commercial Janitorial Service - And Proud of It !

by flipper in

jw
friends

i hope well.

this is a subject i've been wanting to approach for awhile as i've noticed on the board at times there have been wisecracks about janitors who were jehovah's witnesses .

now , hey, i'm real, have a good sense of humor, and can take a joke like anyone, be the brunt of a good joke, hell, i laugh at myself when i work alone at nights- just to keep entertained !

Abandoned

ABANDONED- Hey guy. You are cool. You have never said anything negative, don't worry. You are one of the kinder persons on this board. I'm thankful my wife and I are doin' O.K. as well ! Thanks for the kkind words, bro ! Peace.

Thanks buddy! I really needed to read something like this right now.

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I think the noose just tightened a bit.

by 5go in

we had an interesting local needs.. first it clearly stated if you are not making all the meetings you will not make it in to the new system period no exceptions.

they twisted the story of the red sea to make an example.

saying you can not disobey once, or else you be left stuck in the bottom of the red sea.. from now on the elders will be making shepherding calls on those that are not attending regularly.. also, it was stated that if you know of any not attending regularly.

Abandoned

From now on the elders will be making shepherding calls on those that are not attending regularly.
Also, it was stated that if you know of any not attending regularly. You are to report them to the book study overseer. So that they may receive a shepherding call.

Doesn't sound like they have a very good handle on who exactly needs help....

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YOU'VE GOT 10 MINUTES TO HELP ME MAKE A DECISION!

by journey-on in

jw
friends

i've had a busy week.

out of town guests and noisy kiddos all over the place.

everybody has left.

Abandoned

All of that and a cup of Hot Chocolate and some wafer cookies to dip. (in the chocolate, not in the bath water )

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Favorite Quotes

by Abandoned in

i love inspirational quotes.

i read through them from time to time and i always feel better after sharing the thoughts of yesterday and today's greatest minds.

"if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with success unexpected in common hours.

Abandoned

I find television very educating. Every time somebody turns on the set, I go into the other room and read a book. – Groucho Marx