Yeah, perspective is something that Witnesses fail to grasp.
My family and friends from my hometown all play the shunning game with me, and the other day I was driving down the interstate and on the opposite lane there was a huge mult-car accident. Laying by an overturned Jeep was a dead woman covered in blood. (Reports confirmed later that she was one of the fatalities.) It made me think of how pathetic it is that any of us could be gone in an instant, and they choose to spend what little time we have together on this planet in such an abusive way. All I can feel is pity for them.