This greater topic, across all its different threads, across many protagonists, and across boards right now, amounts to a discussion about only one thing, honesty.
And honesty is not about revealing everything about yourself to everyone you meet.
Honesty is about being truthful about what you do choose to reveal.
Otherwise how is Trevor, with his non-existant dying Linda scenario, different to Eclipse, with her husband and four kids or never-been-in-serious relationship scenario?
I am not the only one on JWD who has fudged their real status.I did so because I was hiding from someone who knew me.
We are all here to share thoughts, experiences, humor, support of other people with whom we have this JW thing in common.
But isn't much of that invalidated, turned into nonsense really, when it's based on blatant lies? Not omissions. Not protection of privacy. But straightforward fibs.
Frankly, then it becomes a waste of my time and yours.
There is a series of many very fine lines, a fragile wall of dominoes, between stating an untruth that nobody will ever catch you out on and receiving money because your imaginary wife has just died. It's just a matter of degree.
Trevanian