Posts by Jef

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Okay, here's my story.

by sundawn77 in

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hey all.. first of all i want to say that i am really impressed by the warm atmosphere that this board provides.

i remember when i was little and we learned about non-witnesses, and they were portrayed as children-eating, blood-drinking criminals.

okay, i exaggerate, but the connotations were there!.

My suggestion is to feel many emotions. You feel sad and disappointed your parents can't be proud of you. But anyone with that mentality can't be proud of you and that makes me mad. This is gonna be an emotional time so feel them - sad mad irritated disgusted hopeless hopeful sick scared etc...

New experiences will bring you new emotions and you will discover how great life is!

Your parents have an accounting too they need to love their daughter so that she can be proud of them for being parents. You did your job as a daughter they need to do their job as parents.

I am so sorry you are going through this. Its gonna be ok though:)

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Suggestions for a cranky, stressed husband....all suggestions welcome.....

by restrangled in

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my poor guy is crabbier than hell.

i have kept him well fed, but it doesn't seem to do the trick.

i am calling on all men out there to tell me what to do and i know sex is an answer too, but is there anything in addition to this you guys wish for when work/life is stressing you out?.

Jef

Dont be afraid to do the same thing over and over. If there is something he likes say for example a foot rub and you did it and he still upset. That doesn't mean it wasn't helpful. Maybe he would like another or just for longer. My point is there is probably things you do that are helpful just because they don't change everything doesn't mean they aren't valuable. So think of what works and do it more. It can have the effect of having two wives. Twice the positive care but no additional person to hover with nagging.

I think that you rock improving yourself to be a better mate is an awesome trait!