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  Male Military Cadets Drop Giant Water Balloon on Female Cadet in PortaPotty

  by seawolf in

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  west point male military cadets drop giant water balloon on female cadet in porta-potty.

  http://www.teambio.org/2006/10/west-point-male-military-cadets-drop-giant-water-balloon-on-female-cadet-in-porta-potty/.

  click on the picture and it takes you to the link for the video.

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  I wouldn't be surprised if they got in trouble for destruction of government property and endangering a fellow cadet. I mean, I laugh, 'cause I know no one was hurt but, honestly, she could have been. Stupid. At least use a lighter water balloon.
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  Introduction

  by Carmel in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i just wanted to introduce myself.

  i grew up as a witness in the 50's but found that there were to many issues that i could not resolve without going "outside" to investigate.

  i have never returned and have no desire to, however, about two years ago i discovered h20 and have been participating there every since.

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  Welcome, Carmel! (seven years too late)
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  Age difference

  by troucul in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  what is the largest socially acceptable age difference in relationships?

  does it depend on the age of the youngest?

  oldest?

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  I don't know. I'm 39, and I have 21-year-olds hit on me all the time. [some in earnest]

  One guy I really liked and hit it off with famously--I was told by more than one person that there was this kind of electricity between us that gets higher and higher when we're together. It wasn't just based on sexual attraction; there was a genuine intellectual (and possibly spiritual) connection that engaged us both intensely. [And honestly, I was so enamored of his EYES that it occurred to me once that I had never even bothered to check out his butt]. <--- That, to me, says something!!

  Anyway, I kept being told that I should go for it, but it just seemed like taking advantage of a young, innocent thing. He was 22 and I was 36 when we first met. I said it would feel like pedophilia for me, and ALL my friends went into an uproar!!! (double standards--blah, blah, blah). This pressure went on for like a year-and-a-half, and then he wound up leaving college early to go to a Spanish immersion school in Cuernavaca, southern Mexico. [He was a TESL--Teaching English as a Second Language--major.]

  I don't know. I still have no answer for that one. Wish 'numbers' and circumstances could have worked out with that one, though. He was one cool dude--everything I look for in a male...with the exception of...a popsicle-stick/ gumby-shaped body. [I did eventually look, but by that time, it didn't matter. I still liked everything about him...!]
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  Guys, What is intimidating about women?

  by Wendy_Warden in

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  2. relationships

  okay, so a guy friend told me i was intimidating.

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  wendy.

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  I have a questions that sorta relates: Why are some men intimidated by a woman who can beat them in dominoes?

  mrsjones5--------- This question reminds me of my ex-husband: When we were dating, he taught me to play backgammon along with some advanced tricks so I could be a more level opponent for him. We played several games in a row and were--I thought--having great fun. Then all of a sudden, he gets up, grabs the pieces and flushes them down the toilet! [I kid you not!!]

  Apparently, out of thirteen games, I had won eight in a row. I wasn't counting, but hewas--and was so disgusted at his losing streak that he had an absolute fit. He teaches me so I can be a more worthy opponent----and then can't hack it when he actually HAS the competition he supposedly was aiming for! LOL

  Yeah...some guys are intimidated by a competent woman. [I wasn't even a gloater. I could at least understand it if I had been gloating!]
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  What have you "Learned from JWD""??,

  by OUTLAW in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  was it,math?..was it,a new way of looking at things?..was it,you were not alone?..was it,patience?..was it,a way to deal with pain?..what have you "learned from jwd"?...outlaw

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  shoes, chocolate, and orgasms---- that's all I need to be happy!! Actually, I'm beginning to think I just need the first two!!

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  I learned that here's where crazyblondeb and I differ: I can do without the shoes.
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  Do JW’s qualify as Christ disciples based on John 13:34, 35?

  by Sola Scriptura in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  im a long time lurker first time poster.

  i am an open minded jw who believes in freeness of speech.

  i love my faith and my worldwide brother and sisterhood (even though i see much room for improvement in how things are run).. i thought i would stir things up a bit with the following question:.

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  Don't believe that for a minute abbagail. True jesus first goal was to bring the house of Israel under his wing but later the command was to go to all nations of the earth teaching and baptizing . That was the "other sheep" spoken of and not the way the WTBTS says it. Mathew 28:19,20

  That makes a lot of sense! --Trust true clarification of the Christian Greek Scriptures to come from a...

  ...heathen!
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  As of Thursday night I am no longer a Jehovahs Witness

  by Es in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  yep my fade has come to a stop, got the phone call off my dad today he asked me if i celebrate christmas and birthdays and i said yes, and so he said they are going to go ahead with the disassociation letter i sent over two years ago!!!!..

  he said that after today the only phone calls i will get are if there is an emergency, but nothing social my response to that was well you havnt seen or spoken to me for over a year im used to it.. he also said there was no bad feelings and that i should never doubt there love for me, and that the stupid thing of it is they can associate with mike and the kids just not me.. im really happy and calm about it, ive had my initial cry over it, and now i feel good that i dont have to lie and hide things anymore.. its such a relief.. luv ya all.

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  Es---- Good for you...and we're here for you.
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  Ok so this is it

  by The salmon in

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  2. friends

  ive been "in the truth" ever since i was 6 years old when my mother was baptised in the late 70`s.

  so i sort of got dragged along to the meetings and therin started the indoctrination that was to prove to be my undoing.

  ive been reading this page for a while now and read some very slick posts from dissillusioned ex members.

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  Welcome, salmon!!

  ...this organisation is not being run to uphold the spirituallity of its flock, its being run for men by men!

  This could not be better stated....

  Look forward to getting to know you/ your experiences better through your posts.
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  Make Up Some Topic Subjects That Would Be Interesting To See

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  here's a few to get the ball rolling------#1 circuit overseer says we can take blood now!------#2 simon plans on closing jwd down!

  !----#3 bush asks for forgiveness concerning iran!-----#4 ask (insert whatever name) a question--------#5 ways for disfellowshipped ones to irritate witnesses .

  do you have any subjects that might be fun or questionable or funny to add here??

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  Who in your old congregation(s) did you almost 'hook up' with--or feel mutual temptation to taste forbidden fruit...? Doesn't matter if you did or not--I'm talking undercurrents....
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  What do women REALLY want?

  by Abandoned in

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  2. relationships

  ok, i've heard it all: sincerity, honesty, security, money, love, romance, flowers, poems, promises, and more.

  but, in my arguably limited experience, i've been shot down while doing all of these (at differnt times obviously).

  so, what do women really want?

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  Mavie--- I think I just had one. ...the full checklist with the dark, swarthy face...