If being a christian means following Jesus, then it should free us from institutional religion. It would mean we are free from following a crowd or even one man. It would mean we are capable of reflection on the futility of reacting to our family and the strictures of a "faith" community.
Salvation may mean rising above these things. Even if we die we can "repent" of former behavior and live without the burden of guilt.
I wonder what Jesus might have been and might have taught. Really.
The problem with finding a "good" sermon in a church is that the preacher is in a church at all.
If we can't trust the bible (I can't), then preaching from it is perilous.
There were other ancient writings that reflect a different Jesus, Ravens. That Jesus would outrage church preachers.