I understand what your are saying nelly, in my old cong there was a brother who had two 'unruly' children, but perfectly normal in my opinion, whenever they 'misbehaved' he would smack then round the head in front of everyone, or take them outside for a good hiding. People used to find it funny, but it was just really sad. He even used to stop his group and go and smack them then continue with the group. What a great example for an elder to set.
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