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  Online Dating

  by FreeGirl2006 in

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  2. friends

  *sigh* i was seeing someone for several months, but it is not working out.

  so i went back to my only way of meeting men thus far--online dating sites.

  i have had some really cool experiences, but i think i am getting burnt out....if i read one more email from a guy that reads "u r booteful and i wud luv to chat with u and then maybe we go out and eat" (or my personal favorite today--"you are eye-popping"--i am busty and the current picture reveals that little fact) i think i will puke!

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  Some men who have no respect for women, will show no respect, regardless of what the woman is wearing.

  I am sorry, sweetstuff, but I disagree here. Guys, no people, people are going to respect you when you respect YOURSELF. If you are wearing clothing, in a pic or on the street, that is very revealing, you are giving the impression that you are looking for attention. Women show off their bodies to get ATTENTION, whether it be good or bad. Back me up here, guys. I am attaching 2 pics. I bet you won't even get past the t*ts to even look at my face.
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  sister in service in PANTS!

  by Cellist in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  this morning we saw a pair of jw women in service.

  nothing remarkable except that one of them was wearing pants.

  it wasn't even a cold day!

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  sweetface2233

  I always wore pants in service in the coldest months. I even wore them to the meetings because we had to travel quite a distance and it wasn't safe to travel in "Society approved clothing", but I remember being counselled when one brother thought I was wearing them too early in the winter.

  Whoa? What the hell? Around here there is no way you could wear pants whether it be in service or a meeting. I've never even seen a sister wear dress pants to a wedding.
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  Online Dating

  by FreeGirl2006 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  *sigh* i was seeing someone for several months, but it is not working out.

  so i went back to my only way of meeting men thus far--online dating sites.

  i have had some really cool experiences, but i think i am getting burnt out....if i read one more email from a guy that reads "u r booteful and i wud luv to chat with u and then maybe we go out and eat" (or my personal favorite today--"you are eye-popping"--i am busty and the current picture reveals that little fact) i think i will puke!

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  sweetface2233

  if you do not have a photo.. it is a waste to even put an ad in a personal. No one will contact you

  So put up a more conservatiove photo. Maybe just your face, or a full body where you are wearing some not so revealing attire. If you put your t*ts on display, guys will look at them! Don't give them more of a motive to oogle you. Play it classy and you'll get better responses.
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  Post a pic of your REAL desktop

  by Nosferatu in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  someone did this thread on a different forum, and i though it might be kinda fun to do it here.

  post a picture, not of your desktop on your pc, but of your pc on your desktop!.

  i'll go first.... .

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  sweetface2233

  I wanted to show my kitty, too!
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  Online Dating

  by FreeGirl2006 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  *sigh* i was seeing someone for several months, but it is not working out.

  so i went back to my only way of meeting men thus far--online dating sites.

  i have had some really cool experiences, but i think i am getting burnt out....if i read one more email from a guy that reads "u r booteful and i wud luv to chat with u and then maybe we go out and eat" (or my personal favorite today--"you are eye-popping"--i am busty and the current picture reveals that little fact) i think i will puke!

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  I tried it for a while. Guys would look at the pretty picture, not read a damn word of what I wrote, then constantly email me and "wink". When I was searching and found a profile that I liked, if he wasn't interested in dating a 30 year old white female who is divorced w/ a curvy figure, I would move it along. Online dating is like looking for a filet mignon in a dirty fast food restaurant.
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  working for JW's

  by arker in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  as a jw i mainly worked for brothers.

  a lot seem to be in the construction industry.

  probably because they are uneducated, because anyone who does work construction (like me) is stuck in it.

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  I've never had the pleasure of working for/with JW's.

  I would say the word "pleasure" is being used loosely here. I was the Office Manager for a JW owned cleaning company from 08/05 - 05/06. The company was located about 45 mins west of DC and at the time I was living about 30 mins east of the district. I got to know the owner's through my sister and they talked to me one day saying they were in dire need of an Office Manager/Scheduler for their business. I was an Office Manager for a yacht company in Annapolis, MD at the time, but I was interested in starting my life anew (recently divorced). I sold my home and bought a condo in VA. Once I got settled in, I noticed how unorganized the office was and was shocked to see that many of the cleaners did not have valid working papers. On a Friday at 5pm, after I had finished a project for the owner, he pulled me into his office and said, and I quote, "We are implementing new software and procedures and I will no longer need your services. You may have also noticed that we are making a lot of deposits w/ cash from my personal home equity line of credit. If I had (insert my salary digit here) in the bank, I would keep you on and train you. Please take your time cleaning out your desk and turn your in your keys" I was shocked! But, then it gets better. I filed for unemployment a week later and he told the DLLR that I was fired due to my "attitude w/ customers." He's a liar...he either lied to me about the reason for dismissal or he lied to the DLLR so he wouldn't have an unemployment claim charged against him.

  F#*k you, "Brother" Kaiser!!!
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  What Things Would You Not Have Done As A JW That You Would Do Now?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  as witnesses, we were very concerned that we might offend somebody's conscience and our actions reflected that.

  if someone might've been "stumbled" by our actions or speech, we would make sure we would do everything possible to not upset another fellow brother or sister.. i would not have gone to an "r" rated movie.

  now, i go to any rated or unrated movie because i don't give a sh*t what smeone might feel over my choice.. what things are you free to do without worrying that someone might be disturbed over it?

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  I am so jealous.. I want that done but am too skurrrreddd...

  Sass...I am telling you, you'll love it. If you're scared, just try a piercing. Think of how a protruding barbell would look while you're going braless!!! It's just a quick, sharp prick and if you breath correctly, you barely feel it. Tats on the other hand, HURT! I felt like I was getting branded w/ an iron seer. I love my tats, but they are my last.
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  There's good news and bad news....

  by sweetface2233 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  the good news...i just had my annual review and, as always, i got an "exceptional"!

  yay, sweetface!!!!

  i am organized, knowledgeable, show extreme initiative, other than my iming addiction adhere to company policy, am terribly dependable, productive, and have excellent communication skills.

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  Thanks to everyone! I just hope my next job, whether or not they offer education benefits, allows the trillian software download and access to craigslist and JWD...keeping my fingers crossed!!!!! Oh yeah, and a boss like my current one. She likes to go to lunch at least once a month and feed me margaritas and tequela shots. Her entertainment for the rest of the day is seeing me struggle to balance all of my accounts while I'm trashed...ha ha!
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  Has anyone found dating as an EX JW difficult?

  by sweetstuff in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  just curious as to what difficulties have faced people dating as an ex jw.

  myself, i have noticed the glazed over look in a guy's eyes when you try to explain why your family doesn't celebrate the holidays with you etc.

  new to this board, so if this has been well covered before, please forgive me.

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  Like a number of posters have said, I find just saying I grew up in a cult, doesn't work, that always leads to more and more questions and a more puzzled and holy crap that's wacked look on the guy's face. LOL

  I am still curious as to why anyone feels that it even needs to enter into the conversations. Yes, it should be addressed, but in my opinion, not until it would take a turn into becoming something serious. First off, being raised as we were, is a very traumatic experience that leaves you emotionally and mentally scarred. That's like telling your date, "Hey, btw, I was an abused child and I have ISSUES". No one wants to hear that and it's no one's business. Secondly, even by bringing it up, most people start getting very negative and bashing the religion. This is not attractive. I would liken that to telling your date, "I am divorced and my ex did this, that, and the other and made my life a living hell!" This is a DATE, not a therapy session. Only when your date would enter into a s/o status should these things even be entered into the picture. At that time the person cares enough about you to want to learn more and help you heal.
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  What Things Would You Not Have Done As A JW That You Would Do Now?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  as witnesses, we were very concerned that we might offend somebody's conscience and our actions reflected that.

  if someone might've been "stumbled" by our actions or speech, we would make sure we would do everything possible to not upset another fellow brother or sister.. i would not have gone to an "r" rated movie.

  now, i go to any rated or unrated movie because i don't give a sh*t what smeone might feel over my choice.. what things are you free to do without worrying that someone might be disturbed over it?

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  sweetface2233

  Want a tattoo and a bellybutton piercing. (Scared to do them both)

  GET THEM!!!!! I have 2 tats and both nipples pierced they are soooooo sexy!!!