It doesn't matter whether or not Grandma was planting seeds about the end. She was in the wrong...period...if she knew your daughter is/was afraid of thunderstorms. If so, what an awful thing to do to a young child!
jamiebowers
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Grandma called the other day, and chose to tell my kids about the tornadoes
by Faithful Witness ini know this might be overreacting, and i have not said a peep about it to my kids or anyone else... .
last week, my kids wanted to call my mom during the day.
on her last visit, they had talked about calling her on her day off at home.
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Hi Guys, I'm new here...
by Mikado inbeen lurking for years, but couldn't log on.
for some reason, my email spam filter is inaccessable, and ended up having to open another account, simply to become a member... wonder how many others have had a similar problem.. its been an eye opener reading everyones life experiences, often so similar.. i was almost a born in, with a hardcore family.
abusive stepfather who was one of the original jws in the area, so much so, that it was called the xxxxx family religion.... been out for 25 years, am glad every day for that!!.
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jamiebowers
Welcome to the mix! You and I have some similarities....abusive stepfather and being out for 25 years. Hope to hear more from you soon!
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FYI, links to photos of jw.org signs on top of WT buildings
by AndersonsInfo inyesterday, on the thread i started on 4/15/14, http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/jw/friends/279088/1/essay-by-barbara-anderson-whats-in-a-name#.u1e98jao7l9 that introduces a recent article i wrote which is posted on www.watchtowerdocuments.org , i thought i made an inaccurate statement in one of my posts about wt having a sign, jw.org, on the top of one of their buildings.
i was sure i had seen a photo of such a sign but couldn't prove it until last night when proof was sent to me in an email and the proof is to be found in the form of links to photos of the sign.
i was wrong in thinking the sign was on a wt factory building.
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jamiebowers
Thanks Aude Sapere!
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I am DF'd now... Decisions, decisions...
by Comatose inso i was df'd a couple weeks ago.
i live in a place where i didn't really have new friends at the kh, so my day to day life isn't changing.
i'm just me living life like i was 2 weeks ago and 2 years ago.
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jamiebowers
Bigmac hit the nail on the head! If your parents want to see your child, they can do it at your house with you present....period....end of story.
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FYI, links to photos of jw.org signs on top of WT buildings
by AndersonsInfo inyesterday, on the thread i started on 4/15/14, http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/jw/friends/279088/1/essay-by-barbara-anderson-whats-in-a-name#.u1e98jao7l9 that introduces a recent article i wrote which is posted on www.watchtowerdocuments.org , i thought i made an inaccurate statement in one of my posts about wt having a sign, jw.org, on the top of one of their buildings.
i was sure i had seen a photo of such a sign but couldn't prove it until last night when proof was sent to me in an email and the proof is to be found in the form of links to photos of the sign.
i was wrong in thinking the sign was on a wt factory building.
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jamiebowers
I don't know enough about computers to know why, but when I type jw, JWN is the first site to come up. Is that because I frequent JWN, or would it be the same for anyone who inputs the letters jw? If so, anyone who tries to check out jw.org is going to get a lot of information from JWN that the Watch Tower cult doesn't want people to know.
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HAPPY APOSTATES 2014 the Video
by Watchtower-Free inhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hpp2sdkgdgo.
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jamiebowers
This made me cry with joy! Thank you! It's good to see a jw video that shows what life is like after learning the truth about the "truth".
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4th Annual Memorial of Freedom
by sd-7 indear false brothers and fellow servants of satan:.
this is to inform you that the 4th annual memorial of freedom will be held next monday, april 14th, at sundown.
please make arrangements to bring your own emblems--chocolate milk and pop tarts, or else some other food and beverage or "down, right strong punch" combo of your personal choice.
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jamiebowers
Glad to see you on JWN, and funny as usual! Do you reccommend Nestle Quick or chocolate syrup chocolate milk?
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Today i miss my friends and feel negative. How did you overcome?
by Jon Preston intoday nothing feels right.
i feel like a bystander to all things.
as if im nowhere and have no forward progression.
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jamiebowers
I was df'd but left a believer. Any time I faced adversity I felt as though it was a punishment. Maybe your problem with finances and insurance is causing you to feel that way too. ANd being alone in the world is very scary without friends, especially if you don't have the money to change your surroundings.
You will feel less lonely and more confident once you overcome difficulties on your own. Always remember that no matter how bad things are, they will change, and you won't be under these circumstances forever. Maybe picking up part time work will help you to save enough to move and pay for insurance. Perhaps you have a 401K you can cash in or have an income tax return coming. I don't know your financials, but there's always some way to dig yourself out.
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When a JW relative came to visit . . . .
by skeeter1 infor those of you who are shunned, it is in disguise a blessing.
becuase when you are not shunned, jws come to visit.
it is the most tiresome hosting you will ever endure.. for the first 2 1/2 days, it was straight talk about "jehovah", the "organization", the "bible", then, "how bad these times are", "can't wait to see someone dead in the new world" .
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jamiebowers
I'm just so tired. It was not an enjoyable visit. I was constantly put on edge, insulted,my JW guests made references constantly to materialism, and selfishness . . especially the last day when they were not trying to make leading conversation to preach the Good News. I think this last day was pure judgemental becuase we have a nice home. Whatever. I didn't bother to counter. I just counted down the hours til they left.
That would've been about the time to point out that they seem to enjoy the fruits of your materialism by staying in your nice home. You should reccomend a nice campground if there is another request to visit.
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Black sheep of the family-my life as an ExJW
by bsand20 ini was a 3rd generation jw, half the congregation i attended was made up of my entire mom's side of the family, 2 of the 3 elders were my grandpa and uncle.
my first memory of the organization was when they announced my mom's name in the meeting saying she had been reinstated....it was 1988 and i was 6 years old....i didn't understand it then, but when i asked my mom why was she crying and why did they say her name in the meeting, she said "it's because i've been good!".
so she went back and after a period of time assisting constantly, she was reinstated.
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jamiebowers
Do whatever you have to do to let go of your anger, whether that be counseling or just posting here on JWN. Hopefully you are NOT allowing your mother access to your kids now that she's shunning you. Let her live with her decision.