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  A Note from Randy/Dogpatch (Freeminds)

  by Lady Lee in

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  this past week randy was hospitalized.

  he is now home recovering and has asked me to let you know that he will need a couple of days to recuperate.

  in the mean time: if you have sent him emails or want to send him an email, it might take a couple of days for him to respond.. feel free to leave messages here for him.

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  Hoping or your speedy recovery!
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  The best way to help any JW out is to remain active

  by Most Noble in

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  attacking from the outside will always prove to be unproductive.

  it is more effective to remain inside the domain while raising people's consciousness and letting them see all the flaws behind the farce.

  i have tried it and i have gotten 47 people out in 6 months, while i am still seen as a publisher in good standing.. .

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  JWN's Tuesday, AKA Tim Kilgore on Youtube stopped counting at 400 for the number of people he helped out of the Watchtower cult. And he did it while outside of the organization.
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  SAD news about OOMPA......

  by redredrose in

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  our friend, oompa, has passed away.

  just recieved the news a couple of hours ago, and have almost no details.

  it happened today or yesterday, he took his own life.

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  @Z-Monster:

  I have lurked on this site and its predecessor since shortly after the U.N. fiasco. Oompa's story is very moving. I cannot imagine how much intestinal fortitude it took for him to get out of bed every morning. To all of Oompa's friends and family, you have my deepest sympathy, May he finally be at peace.

  Welcome to JWN! Oompa would be thrilled that you've been reading here and that he prompted your first post here!
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  classic oompa - "food tastes the same"

  by BroMac in

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  i was looking at some older threads from oompa i didnt have to look to long before i came across this cracker of an op http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/jw/friends/144083/1/hindered-prayers-says-my-wife-so-i-stopped.

  ps could someone make it clickable please.

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  Thanks for starting this thread. After having cried for three solid days, I started thinking about some of the funny things Oompa used to say. The one that cracked me up the most was when he bought a cellphone specifically to talk to ex and exiting jws. He called it his apostaphone, and he talked on it in his apostatruck.
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  Stop fighting about Oompa.

  by Robert7 in

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  i am writing this because i am so upset about the bickering and fighting that is going on about oompa.

  this was an amazing wonderful, peaceful, giving man who never met a strager who is now deceased and you are taking his name and running all over the place with it using it for your own agendas.

  he is not a statistic.

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  @FlyingHighNow:

  Our mental health system is horribly inadequate. It is tragically inadequate. They failed Oompa, Stacey, you did not.

  Stacey, she's entirely correct. Oompa should've never been released from the hospital so soon.

  You first sought this board for relief from the Watchtower and met Oompa. Now you're coming full circle by using this board for solace from your grief and to share insight into his life and tragic death. You are more than welcome here, and I want thank you for your boundless friendship to a man that many of us cared about.
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  I would love for you to know my Oompa.... (from one of his closest friends)

  by Robert7 in

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  Thanks Wes and Stacey. I didn't know Oompa nearly as well as you did, but it wasn't difficult to understand that he was as fragile as he was friendly and as lonely as he was loving. He just couldn't recover from the loss of his family. I'm so sorry for your grief.
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  Video tribute to Oompa (Eric Reeder)

  by cedars in

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  2. friends

  i didn't know eric particularly well, and i feel terrible that i didn't reach out to him more or try to help him while i still had the opportunity.. i feel extremely helpless, but the least i can do is help others remember him who knew him better.. here is a video i've uploaded to youtube in his honor.... .

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=67a0imd6dng.

  i hope it helps us as we mourn a much-loved member of this forum.. .

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  jamiebowers

  Thanks for making that video. What a lovely tribute!
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  Light a Candle for Oompa

  by BabaYaga in

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  2. friends

  there is a lovely site where one may light a candle for a moment of silence.. http://www.gratefulness.org/candles.

  i set up a group, where they may all flicker together, if you like.. http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=oompa.

  (we love and miss you, oompa.).

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  Lit mine. Muddy, that video made me cry and smile at the same time....than you.
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  Message from Oompa's Family re Obit and Memorial!!!

  by AGuest in

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  2. friends

  may you all have peace!.

  i received the following via email from a family member just a moment or so ago (bold is mine, fyi).

  again, peace to you all!.

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  jamiebowers

  I'm so glad to hear that normal people in Oompa's family are involved in his obituary and service. Shelby, can you ask whether his company's work address is the appropriate one to send sympathy cards?
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  SAD news about OOMPA......

  by redredrose in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  our friend, oompa, has passed away.

  just recieved the news a couple of hours ago, and have almost no details.

  it happened today or yesterday, he took his own life.

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  jamiebowers

  AGuest, thank you for posting that ad and using the words from Don McClean's song. I posted them here and on Facebook last night, because truer words were never spoken regarding Oompa:

  For THEY could not love YOU
  Stil YOUR love was TRUE
  And when no hope was left in sight
  On that starry, starry night
  You took your life like lovers often do
  But I could have told you, dear Eric
  This world was NEVER meant for one
  As beautiful... as you."