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  Anyone in Tucson?

  by barry in

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  i will be traveling to tucson arizona arriving next wednesday 31st august.

  we are looking forward to some warmth because of winter here in australia .. if there is anyone out there in the area of tucson drop me a message.

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  jamiebowers

  I sent your post via private message on Facebook to a guy who is an ex-jw in Tucson. I don't know if he's on JWN.
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  Something I just realized!

  by Nikki collins in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  now that i'm out if i ever do find someone and settle down and start a family, my parents wont be a part of it.

  my dad wont walk me down the isle if i get married, if i have kids they wont know their grandparents.

  oh and by the way i had my freaking tubes tied so as not to have kids in this system.

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  I've been out for 31 years and learned early on that it's important to have people in your life who truly want what's best for you and are safe to be around. No matter how much a jw loves you, they are neither. Any jw worth his or her salt would rather watch you die than have a blood transfusion. They would rather battered spouses either stay in abusive relationships or at least have ex-spouses keep tabs on each other to see whether they are "free to remarry". And jws have child molesters in their midst and either don't feel a need to inform others or have no idea they're around.
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  Remember SD7 post?

  by fatimaportalgul1917 in

  1. social
  2. humour

  the drama parody let my eye not become wicked.

  this is a remake of that drama skit some names have been changed and shortened this actully took a long time sorry.

  no copyright infringement intended.

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  jamiebowers

  ....in "vein".....LOL!
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  Reflections and Field Service

  by EmptyInside in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  wow,i started posting on here 10 years ago,time flies,when waking up from cult mind control,lol.. i've been watching a lot of youtube lately from ex-jehovah's witnesses,especially those just coming out.

  and some still go out in field service on their own.

  i have a confession.

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  jamiebowers

  Aw, sweetie, you're the nicest, most thoughtful person I know! I just wish I was more mobile....would love to meet you in person. Speaking of mobility, I'm getting my left knee replaced the end of next month....yipeeeeeeeeeeee! Hopefully my right knee will follow shortly, and then both hips in a few years. There's still no recourse for my back, but with new joints in my knees and hips, who knows what I'll be able to do?!
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  Dating question from a bible student

  by Biblestudent1 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i have done bible study for about four months now.

  the married couple who do it with me are lovely.

  i have attended meetings for about two months.

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  jamiebowers

  The Watch Tower requires a couple to have a chaperone when dating. Since you're not baptized, she shouldn't be dating you at all, hence the suggested group outing. Please do your research before continuing your study. You're getting involved with a high control group.
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  Please help.... depressed jw teen

  by huniepie in

  1. social
  2. family

  i think i’m going insane.... i’m 17 years old and being raised in a jw household.

  i really want friends and a boyfriend but i can’t have that because my parents are jw and i’m also homeschooled.

  they are those jw parents that refuse to let me go to public school because of bad influences.

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  jamiebowers

  If you live in the US, you may want to check out AmeriCorps, but you'll have to be 18. Even if you're a year away from legal age, making plans to leave will make the time go quicker. Once you're out, think about making friends before finding a boyfriend. In the meantime, your parents may allow you to go to a trade school or community college to gain job skills. Have you talked to them about it?

  Time seems to stand still when you're young, because you have so much of it. But no matter how depressing your life seems, it won't last forever.

  Here's the link to AmeriCorps: https://www.nationalservice.gov/impact-our-nation/state-profiles
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  First time here - My Story (Spousal Abuse)

  by Centaurus A in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  hi everyone, this is my first time here and only in the last 2 weeks have my eyes been opened.

  still trying to take in all this new info.

  anyways here is my very condensed story:.

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  jamiebowers

  Well, it sounds like things haven't changed much in Watch Tower world. I made a similar escape from an abusive jw husband about 30 years ago. Keep reading and thinking, and your cult induced phobias will eventually cease.
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  After watching A&E Leah Remini on Jehovah Witnesses I am going to stop hiding behind my Avatar

  by Still Totally ADD in

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  just got done watching this program and what impress me the most was the bravery of those x-witnesses to sit there on national tv and tell everyone how the wt.

  cult affected them.

  no hidden faces, no avatar names and no disguise.

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  Good for you!
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  Family is now reaping what they sowed and they don't like it.

  by Gemmel in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i resigned from the jw's in my 20's over 30 years ago, i was immediately shunned by my entire family and it's remained that way with a few exceptions ever since.

  one of those exceptions was being contacted by a cousin a few years back and during that conversation i discovered that my mother had been and still was the prime mover in my complete and continuing shunning.

  i then used what contacts i had left to confirm it.

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  jamiebowers

  Good for you. Enjoy your early retirement!
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  Guilt trip

  by Jrjw in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  did anyone have other jws try to guilt trip them when they were leaving or if you were making a decision which jws felt was wrong but wasn't unscriptural?

  i'm getting people guilt tripping me to eventually get back with my emotionally, spiritually and mentally abusive husband who i'm separated from.

  i feel sick at the thought of getting back together and putting myself through that nightmare again but i'm being told its what jehovah wants coz he doesn't want families to be apart.

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  jamiebowers

  Yes, I was guilt tripped when I left my abusive jw husband. Years later I completed a questionnaire composed by a FBI agent that studied domestic violence murders. On a scale of 0 to 9 of chances of being killed had I stayed in the marriage, I scored a 9.

  The example you're setting for your kids is that no one deserves to be abused. It would be very difficult to set any example for them if you're dead. Stand your ground. No rational person would expect you to stay in a situation where you're being mistreated. As a matter of fact, sane family and friends should be rallying around you. Contact the domestic violence hotline in your area to see if there are support groups that may help you to build a network outside of the cult.