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  why do elders ask such personal questions when deciding whether to disfellowship

  by looloo in

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  a friend of mine was asked if she had become "moist" along with had penetration actually taken place , why is that necassary to ask along with did you fondle breasts etc surley they could keep it short and ask if the "deed " was done , yes or no ?

  why all the other questions ?

  she was only 19 with no experiance of life and sex and was so embaressed she could not answer and was disfellowshipped for being "cocky" any ideas ?.

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  I think OTWO is right. During my JC I asked them if they were getting off by asking these questions. My dad promptly grabbed me by the arm and pulled me into the hallway to let me know that if I didn't answer the questions and look repentant that they would df me and if they did I'd have to find somewhere else to live.

  Mind you I was 17, pregnant and being told not to ever see the father of my child again. So I went back in cried alot and said I was sorry, that I'd never speak to my boyfriend again and cried some more. They fell for it, public reproved me and I didn't get kicked out of the house.

  I still didn't answer the stupid questions, I was too busy crying. I never felt sorry or repentant and walked out giving them the finger. I went home and started planning my escape!

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  My experience with the Bethel Legal Dept. regarding a Ministerial Servant molesting a boy

  by BonaFide in

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  the experience that follows contains some details that some might find graphic.

  so be warned.. the body of elders received word that an unmarried ministerial servant, age 20, had been seen fondling a younger male bible student, age 14. the ministerial servant himself had been studying with the boy.

  the ministerial servant was a quiet, timid brother.

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  The mother should have called the police immediately. She is the one I have a problem with.

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  why do elders ask such personal questions when deciding whether to disfellowship

  by looloo in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  a friend of mine was asked if she had become "moist" along with had penetration actually taken place , why is that necassary to ask along with did you fondle breasts etc surley they could keep it short and ask if the "deed " was done , yes or no ?

  why all the other questions ?

  she was only 19 with no experiance of life and sex and was so embaressed she could not answer and was disfellowshipped for being "cocky" any ideas ?.

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  I was asked:

  Who undressed who?(gawd did it)

  Did you give/receive oral?(why?)

  Did you enjoy it? (uh yeah! why is that a question?)

  How many times did each of the above happen? (didn't count)

  Did you kiss with your mouth open or closed? (wha?, is there any other way?)

  Did you touch his penis? (uh no, it magically entered me)

  I refused to anwer these idiotic questions. I was pregnant damnit how do you think it happend and why does it matter? Stupid elders!

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  Crazy JW chaperon Stories

  by superman in

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  2. friends

  the jw's must not trust their members or at least don't have too much faith in them when it comes to being alone around member of the opposite sex.

  i can remember one time in particular from when i was a teenager that still makes me laugh today.. when i was younger i used to go out in service on a regular basis during the week when i had summer break.

  one time when i met for service there were only two other people that showed up.

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  Hang on... Hang on I'm getting a signal... Yes it's coming in quite clearly! Hold on... Yup, Jehovah just told me to kick your ass...

  LMAO! Thanks I needed a good laugh today

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  Crazy JW chaperon Stories

  by superman in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  the jw's must not trust their members or at least don't have too much faith in them when it comes to being alone around member of the opposite sex.

  i can remember one time in particular from when i was a teenager that still makes me laugh today.. when i was younger i used to go out in service on a regular basis during the week when i had summer break.

  one time when i met for service there were only two other people that showed up.

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  Hang on... Hang on I'm getting a signal... Yes it's coming in quite clearly! Hold on... Yup, Jehovah just told me to kick your ass...

  LMAO! Thanks I needed a good laugh today

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  Soooo it's my turn to screw someone's life up...

  by Mastodon in

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  as it seems i'm going to be a daddy for the first time!.

  go sperms!!

  !.

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  Yay sperm! I mean congrats!

  Life as you know it is about to change, LOL

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  Things I have said to my wife lately

  by Yizuman in

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  7 am - i wake up and walk up to my wife, "good morning, my precious!".

  7:30 am *she hits the flasher button indicating she needs me* "yes, my queen??

  " wife "oh stop.

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  6:30 AM - I wake up, hit the snooze and say 5 more minutes!

  6:45 AM *he nudges me and says 5 minutes up, you are gonna be late, I say, shut up I know what time it is

  7:05 AM I jump up, yelling shit I'm gonna be late! Shower, dress, hair, grab lunch, say bye and run out the door! He rolls over and sleeps for another 45 minutes

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  disfellowshipped husband banned by inactive dad from house

  by looloo in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  hi everyone , i have been absent for a year in an attempt to "move on" and have moved areas , have been harrassed by mormons loads in new are a but not a jw in sight !

  has there been some new rules come out recentley regarding total shunning disfellowshipped family as my husband has been out now about 14 years and has so far never been banned from the house of his parents , but the other day his inactive dad asked him if he would mind not calling at theirhome anymore as it makes things awkward for his wife and jw children .

  husband wanted to know why now after all these years ?

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  They will see their grandchild but not the parents???!!! yeah, when hell freezes over, that would be my answer. Your family should be a package deal and besides you know what will happen if you leave your child with these people. If you are worried about having grandparents in the childs life, there are countless elderly that would love to adopt your family and have a child to spoil. Protect your kids from this abusive, dangerous and deadly cult

  So true from personal experience!

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  Sending Out a Letter to My JW Daughter - Give Me Your Thoughts Please

  by flipper in

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  2. friends

  some of you probably read my jw daughter's letter to mrs. flipper and me a few weeks ago where she tried explaining to mrs. flipper why she doesn't have anything to do with me ( says i talk negative towards the organization ) .

  in that letter though she showed some flashes of her authentic, kind personality and told us she loves us.

  but much of the letter was proselytizing to us about how bad the system is and how jeovah will bring a paradise, etc.

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  Flipper,

  The letter is great! You bring her back to what it's really all about, family, memories and being loved unconditionally.

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  District Convention Audio?

  by Hikaru in

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  2. friends

  excuse me.

  i read in a topic that someone had the audio to the convention?

  is there anyway they can come forth and send them to me?

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  ... [insert string of cuss words here]

  Maybe you should work on saving yourself first?

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