Blondie, I fear you went thru Christendom's "Hell" with a past husband- but that doesn't justify your view. The VAST majority of marriages I see in our congregations are, at least, REASONABLY happy- some struggling to keep it that way. I've seen endless marriages by unbelievers, in all faiths, fall apart over the silliest things- and most very quickly! You can't have a marriage survive long with opposing wills & authority! Women are usually SMARTER than men- you appear to be shooting my opinion down, on that!
Agape,
Mad