Posts by babygirl75

I know what you mean about them growing up too fast! My little baby boy just turned 9!!! It has gone by so fast, but he is the biggest delight in my life! He still lets me cuddle with him and kiss on him (as longs as his buddies aren't around!)

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What is most important for a typical JW

by Nosferatu in

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what, in your opinion, is most important thing for a typical jw?

what affects him in his day to day life?

what causes them to make the decisions they do?

babygirl75

LOL megsmomma

I agree it's all about appearance. But In my parents case, they sincerely want to make sure all their actions are favorable with Jehovah. (dad's the PO as well) You definetely won't find two more people that walk the straight line.

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Mouthy here are the pictures

by LaniB in

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here we go, hopefully i can insert them here.

these were taken almost 2 weeks ago.

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babygirl75

SHE IS SO ADORABLE!!!

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Just a little Update...(with pictures)

by RichieRich in

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so today i was thinking... and i haven't posted here in quite some time!

i came and started reading through some recent posts... and boy have i missed a lot.

the whole trevorgate thing... and danny haszard... whew.

babygirl75

Hey Ritchie...

It's good to hear from you again. Your girlfriend is really pretty and you both look so happy. I wish both a happy future together!

Congratulations on the weight loss. Some may not agree with all of your modifications, but as I've learned through out my own life, You have to make yourself happy and just do what is right for you. It's just too exhausting to try to make everyone else happy and live your life the way they perceive it and then you're the one to end up unhappy!!

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List Reasons Why YOU Would NEVER Go Back To The "Truth"

by minimus in

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i recently saw my jw brother and sil and listened to them talk about poor sister sick(o) who has been diagnosed with major mental problems.

she went to the doctor's and the doctor supposedly began to berate her out of the blue because she is a jehovah's witness.

now the family wants to have the doctor formally rebuked for his so called "discriminatory comments".

babygirl75

I really enjoy the freedom of my life and not feeling guilty or having to watch every step I take!

Have "worldly" friendships that are true friendships

In regards to it being the "truth", if it actually was Jehovah's true organization, you would think that they would get more things right instead of constantly changing doctrine and just blowing it off as "new light". I actually hate that term "new light"..It always made me gag!

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Dialysis help...

by babygirl75 in

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hey everybody..it's been a while since i've had a chance to post.

hope all is okay.... some of you may or may not remember from my earlier post that i had breast cancer last year and went through chemo.

well, my kidneys have been slowly failing since i was 17 and they got worse a few months after i had my son.

babygirl75

Thanks everybody for you input..I really appreciate it!!

Iwillbedubbednomore...I'm glad things finally worked out for you. I hate you had to go through all of that for such a long time! One question I do have for you is with the bags you changed, how did you hide that in your clothes? Or, am I not understanding enough about that option?

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Dialysis help...

by babygirl75 in

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hey everybody..it's been a while since i've had a chance to post.

hope all is okay.... some of you may or may not remember from my earlier post that i had breast cancer last year and went through chemo.

well, my kidneys have been slowly failing since i was 17 and they got worse a few months after i had my son.

babygirl75

Hey Everybody..It's been a while since I've had a chance to post. Hope all is okay...

Some of you may or may not remember from my earlier post that I had breast cancer last year and went through chemo. Well, My kidneys have been slowly failing since I was 17 and they got worse a few months after I had my son. I just found out last week that I may need to go ahead and start dialysis. I've gone over the info that the doctor has given me and have even looked over the internet, but it still helps to be able to talk too and hear suggestions from ones that have acutally gone through it. Any suggestions you would have regarding which treatment option and your experiences and side effects would be greatly appreciated!! I go next week to a training course to let the doctors know what option I'm choosing.

Thanks so much!!

Babygirl75

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October~Breast Cancer Awareness Month~~ I challenge the posters here!

by purplesofa in

just a reminder to get your mammo, at least by the end of the year.. the komen foundation has done so much for breast cancer awareness..........is anyone doing the race for the cure in their area?

i am only a sponser .........i may be a late entry, not sure yet.. and guys, tell your ladies to get their boobs pinched.............you have a interest in it as well!!!!

http://cms.komen.org/komen/index.htm.

babygirl75

I'm a 1 year Breast Cancer Survivor as of Last month!!! Early detection is the key!!

Thanks Purps for donating & being a sponser!

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Would You Now Consider Yourself "Normal" Since You're "Out"?

by minimus in

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or are you still grossly affected because you were once a jw?

babygirl75

I think anyone that was born into the religion or raised as a JW, never actually will feel 100% "normal". Reason being, alot of us have family that is still in and we are the outsiders, so there is no "normal" family functions or gatherings. When you see old friends that you have had in the past & grew up with, you are shunned & they act as if they don't know you. So for many of us our lives have really only begun after leaving the org and we have to take it from that point on, but your past as a JW and all that comes with it never leaves you! It will be 6 years next month since I've left and it still affects me one way or another...