Posts by lrkr

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Did you AWAKEN from the JWs by yourself?

by cultBgone in

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i was thinking about how so many posters here on jwn are frustrated and frantic to help their loved ones get away from the brainwashing of jws, and how much advice is given about how to help family members and loved ones.

i considered my own leaving and that it was internal turmoil based on the teachings getting weirder and child abuse issues, to name just a few, and it made me wonder:.

did you self-awaken or were you assisted by the gentle proddings of a friend or family member?

lrkr

My wife was mentally out but I was an elder and the congregation secretary. 3 things pushed me over the edge: 1- counting up all the publishers time seemed like an excessive waste of time and tracking of something that was not very meaningful. 2- I had trouble seeing myself as the guy going around telling everyone that the world was going to end. There were too many logical questions abut the Armageddon and new system teachings. 3- you guys, open minds.com and COC lifted the vail.

So yes. I had help.

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Montreal Gazette: 'Homosexuals like you in tight pants,' JW leader says

by AndersonsInfo in

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http://montrealgazette.com/life/turning-the-page-homosexuals-like-you-in-tight-pants-jehovahs-witness-leader-says-reportsturning the page: 'homosexuals like you in tight pants,' jehovah's witness leader says reportsjillian page, montreal gazette more from jillian page, montreal gazette.

published on: november 12, 2014 last updated: november 12, 2014 11:33 pm est.

skin-tight pants are a no-no in public, church leader says,.

lrkr

I think putting GB talks online will do more to undermine this organization than 100 JWNs could ever do. The rank and file have no idea how out of touch the organizations leadership is.

Can't wait for some crazy Loesch rant to go viral. ("Wives craving", "women taking too long of strides" - just a few of the Bethel clasics)

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Got ratted out for celebrating Halloween...

by cognac in

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one of two things will happen.

i'll get disfellowshipped and never have to worry about being "told on" again for living a normal life, or; they won't do anything.. either way, it's freeing and i feel relieved... it will be sad if i get disfellowshipped but i've come to terms and made peace with it as much as can be expected.

it's a huge weight to have off.. was told on a week ago and haven't heard anything.

lrkr

Congratulations on your courage Cognac. No matter where this goes you'll be better off. Seeing the impact the borg would have on my son was all I needed to get out. Had a birthday party for him, got ratted out, left and haven't looked back.

He's 15 now and thinks he's too cool for trick or treating but I got out in time to give him 7 years of normal Halloween fun!

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Audrey Mock Knorr Hyde And Where Are We Going?

by ctrwtf in

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i've been thinking about audrey mock knorr hyde since i heard about her death some weeks ago.

i met her while at watchtower farms in the early eighties.

i knew her second husband glen before alzheimers really began to take its toll.

lrkr

Spent some time at WTF too. She was always fun to talk to.

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Audrey Hyde (Nathan Knorr's widow) died yesterday

by Absalom in

audrey hyde died yesterday.

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lrkr

I knew Audrey. She was a cool cat. A very colorful personality in the very monochromatic world of Bethel. I think she loved Nathan- and tried in her own way to get him to not be so boring!

We always said she was the one responsible for changing Bethel policy on marriage. And she must have been quite charming to catch the attention of the stubborn, workaholic, avowed bachelor Knorr.

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New novel about the blood issue

by lrkr in

heard this book review yesterday on npr.

sounds like a good read.. .

http://www.npr.org/2014/09/05/346060805/in-the-children-act-the-electrifying-human-dimension-of-a-legal-drama.

lrkr

Heard this book review yesterday on NPR. Sounds like a good read.

http://www.npr.org/2014/09/05/346060805/in-the-children-act-the-electrifying-human-dimension-of-a-legal-drama

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How the Supreme Courts decision could spill into the JW world.

by problemaddict in

so in the 5-4 decision today, the courts said an employer could not be forced to cover things mandated by the aca (specifically birth control was the point of contention), if doing so would violate their religious beliefs.. nuts.

just nuts.. here is what ruth ginsberg wrote in her dissent.

its 35 pages, but this stood out to me for obvious reasons.. "would the exemption...extend to employers with religiously grounded objections to blood transfusions (jehovah's witnesses); antidepressants (scientologists); medications derived from pigs, including anesthesia, intravenous fluids, and pills coated with gelatin (certain muslims, jews, and hindus); and vaccinations[?

lrkr

An embarrasing decision. Wouldnt surprise me if WT filed an amicus brief in favor of Hobby Lobby!

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Survey---who is inactive, disfellowshipped/disassociated or active?

by minimus in

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i am inactive for about 10 years now..

lrkr

7 years free. No status. Just walked out.

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What is your status???

by lrkr in

my family and i are planning a trip to a nice vacation area close to where my (active jw) parents and sister and brother in law live.

my family and i are not df'd, da'd or anything else- we just executed a successful fade and havent looked back.

sooo- i've expressed my interest in spending some time with them on vacation (why not- right??).

lrkr

@dfg

Great to hear from you. I feel like i have this double life. The honest faded jw that talks on the phone with parents and siblings and the totally non jw person that i am ths rest of the time. I really could care a less about their little control club and superstitions. But i have to show a little respect in order to have a semirelationship with my parents.

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What is your status???

by lrkr in

my family and i are planning a trip to a nice vacation area close to where my (active jw) parents and sister and brother in law live.

my family and i are not df'd, da'd or anything else- we just executed a successful fade and havent looked back.

sooo- i've expressed my interest in spending some time with them on vacation (why not- right??).

lrkr

@Bob- yes- that's exactly the message I'm trying to portray. That blood is thicker than whatever religious opinions I or they have at any given time. Hopefully that message will break through the brainwashing.