whine away....I understand. I don't like being alone either.....
wings
many times i read the life stories of former jws.
some of these jws are or have been married.
sometimes their spouses share their doubt about the religion and at times they leave the "truth" together or months or years apart.
whine away....I understand. I don't like being alone either.....
wings
well, the elders are coming over tomorrow for a shepherding call with me and my wife.
i am sure they will discuss my low hours in the field ministry and how i am not doing everything i could be doing.
for my wife's sake, i will be good and mostly "smile and nod".
Unfortunately it is all part of the fade. Just remember your motives are in the right place.
wings
I hate it when it happens. I always feel blindsided, or dumb, after that settles in I am left with the pain. The word "crushed" is strong. I'm sorry,I think you are awsome!
wings
Would you like to get blasted with positive and loving comments? I'm sure we are up for the task.
hey everyone!
just joined this board, but not new to boards of this sort.. the board i favored most just changed and i haven't rejoined (mainly because it sux now).. i have heard about this board for awhile, but this is the first time i ventured in.
just kinda.
Welcome!!!
I love your name! Look forward to hearing more.
wings
a: i block your car.. today i was out and about enjoying a rare day off work.
all was well and i was feeling good and having a good time... then i came home and found this grey honda parked in my driveway blocking me from parking in my garage (the one i pay $70 a month for).
ok, if asshole wants to block me, i'll block asshole.
TOWANDA!!!!!
Watch out if you take the parking space of a middle aged woman going through the change.
just a question.
i'll withhold my answer for now.
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Wha?
Hey wha? what are you doing up so early? How's it going?
just a question.
i'll withhold my answer for now.
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If you think women listen better just watch The View. Talk about a chicken coop. Bok bok bakock! They are always talking over one another. And when they realize they are talking over someone else, they just keep talking anyway, so that there are two conversations going on at the same time, each moment the volume goes up and up. It's maddening to watch
I don't have the stomach for that sort of thing. I go crazy in any situation where there are too many females talking. For instance, bridal showers, or baby showers, I always got sick so I wouldn't have to go. I wondered if there was some kind of phobia I had. Truth is, I find women extremely interesting, and damn good company, just not more than a few at a time. How are you at listening? Being trapped in a room full of men sharing their bathroom humor might not be so appealing either. Just don't get invited to those parties so I don't have to get sick to get out of it.
first i would like to apologize for all the stupic topics.
when i do decide to get serious again....beware.
anyway, i have never been a tv watcher, then in my jw life.....didn't have time.
just a question.
i'll withhold my answer for now.
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When a woman asks you to listen, she generally means to remember
it for the rest of your evening (or life for husbands) and be sympathetic or
enthusiastic at the proper times. Men assume they need to jump in and
solve the problem. If they offer a solution, they were listening. All we
really have to do is know when to say, "Oh, too bad. I am so sorry for you.
Here's a hug."
OTWO, just a guess, sounds like you might be married? It's a rough life eh? Well as long as you know the basics, being of course the woman is always right, you'll do just fine. Sounds like you have a pretty good handle on it.
If you ever need any help with that, just PM me and I'll remind you. No charge.
and i knew i was going to be here for weeks but did it occur to me to see if there are any jwders out here?
noooooo.
i'm just here for tonight and tomorrow night, then back home again.
I'm teaching the class, so if it's boring - that's the students' problem, eh?
As usual you are making perfect sense. No matter where you are in CA when I go visit my sister I'll hunt you down. Deal?