You know, before I had kids, I could not understand WHY
other male adults could even be interested in my kids. I remember, at the
assembly hall, I would go to the bathroom and change my kid’s dippers and there
would be those 50 something year old men who would walk by, look at my kid and
their face would light up, smiling. As a new father, I couldn’t understand that
and felt threatened by them.
Well, now that my kids are growing up, I have found myself
doing the exact same thing as these man did back in the days: Looking at other’s
kids, be kind, find them adorable, etc. I understand what these little ones
feel, like, do. It brings me back a few years, when my own kids were their age –
the good days.
And now, I feel frustrated. Frustrated that because of a few
SOBs, normal guys like me cannot look at a kid without wondering if their
mother or father is going to feel threatened by it. So, I tend to be overly cautious.
I think this social barrier needs to be broken.