thanx for all your posts i now understand it better as to why they dont celebrate it.
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why dont witnesses celebrate xmas, etc
by aussie ini have asked this question but it hasnt really been answered for me, so why do they not celebrate xmas, birthdays, etc.
sorry if its been asked but still curious, dont really understand.. .
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why dont witnesses celebrate xmas, etc
by aussie ini have asked this question but it hasnt really been answered for me, so why do they not celebrate xmas, birthdays, etc.
sorry if its been asked but still curious, dont really understand.. .
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i have asked this question but it hasnt really been answered for me, so why do they not celebrate xmas, birthdays, etc
sorry if its been asked but still curious, dont really understand.
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I Feel so alone
by aussie inhi everyone, well im totally new at this but i thought i would give it a go anyway.so here is my story(short version).
well i have been with my boyfriend for 2yrs now and the last 4months he has started to get back into witnessing.
i have said from day one that i dont want to be one, but i did attend a meeting, memorial and some studys i did this for him to see what it was all about.
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thats what is so hard about all of the since is that we have a great relationship we get along really well, he gets along with all my family and even spent the last two xmas together and even celebrated his bday and mine. if we didnt have such a good relationship then i would have ended it all ready. but he makes me happy as i do to him. i also get alon well with his family to.
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I Feel so alone
by aussie inhi everyone, well im totally new at this but i thought i would give it a go anyway.so here is my story(short version).
well i have been with my boyfriend for 2yrs now and the last 4months he has started to get back into witnessing.
i have said from day one that i dont want to be one, but i did attend a meeting, memorial and some studys i did this for him to see what it was all about.
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thanx for your replies it does make me feel better and not so alone.
my parents and friends all so the same thing your beautiful and you will find someone else, but it is not easy to take that in when your inlove.
things have slowly started to change sometimes over the last 4 months depending where we are and if he has just been to a meeting or study or something. he is fine on the weekends as he is still going out and getting drunk but come the week he is different. he moved out of my house and back home and also when i ask him to say at mine he doesnt really want to and then he tells me to come stay at his, we can not sleep in the same bed there.
he has only started within 6months pushing it onto me but before then everything was sweet. its just so hard but i know i will never be a witness not after what i know, i just hope our love will be enough to make him realise that im a good thing, cause if he does lose me well he would have just lost the best thing that ever happend to me and he will have to live with that for the rest of his life.
thanx again for your replies,
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I Feel so alone
by aussie inhi everyone, well im totally new at this but i thought i would give it a go anyway.so here is my story(short version).
well i have been with my boyfriend for 2yrs now and the last 4months he has started to get back into witnessing.
i have said from day one that i dont want to be one, but i did attend a meeting, memorial and some studys i did this for him to see what it was all about.
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hi everyone, well im totally new at this but i thought i would give it a go anyway.so here is my story(short version)
well i have been with my boyfriend for 2yrs now and the last 4months he has started to get back into witnessing. i have said from day one that i dont want to be one, but i did attend a meeting, memorial and some studys i did this for him to see what it was all about. my parents werent to happy about me going so i didnt tell them every time i went. but lately i have told them everythinbg i cant exactly hide it when im crying my eyes out, when we had yet another conversation about it which we have been having alot of he told me that if didnt become one that we cant be together. i ended up having a day and half off cause i was so upset this is the guy that i wanna spend the rest of my life with and he said that to me, i dont think he would ever have said that to me 6 or 9 months ago so i can all ready see he is changing. we had another talk but this time i was able to come back with questions instead of him always talking. i asked him if he knew that you actually celebrated valentines day, he said something like no we didnt, he asked his mum and then he said had a confession to make that we did celebrate so that felt good, that he didnt know that. at this stage i was doing research i was on the net all day, went to the library and hired the book crisis of conscience(very good) went to this talk with this older guy and his wife, and he basically said that what i found out was satan and lies and when i would ask a question he would be like i have never heard that or thats not true so i didnt bother asking questions anymore i just let him do the talking. i told them from the start that i was never gonna become one and i dont believe it but they just said that was how i felt before i got started into. i will admit there was a point that i did think about i was even defending them to my mum, but then something clicked inside of me and there is no way i will be a witness. also this sunday going to my last talk with this person dont know what i will talk about and then having a talk with my boyfriend, not gonna be a fun weekend. my parents arent to happy with me going to another talk because they have had enough of seeing me upset and being emoional blackmailed cause i kinda feel that way. .
well sorry thats so long and i hope it does make sense.