I'm a little confused Mindy. You posted late last night and it sounded like you were with your husband at a fire station and you were in the throughs of a miscarrige. In this post you say you are no longer married and your miscarrige occurred 4 months ago. I'm not tryning to be insensitive, I've lost several pregancies myself, but i don't quite follow what you are saying.
The issue of the abuse puzzles me as well. Were the abusers witnesses? That would make a big differnce in how the cong. handled matters. If they were witnesses, were they dealt with by a JC? Was the cong. warned ?
Just trying to figure you out...