I had to attend one of their funerals just this past weekend. I am ALWAYS steamed at the lack of personal touch to the talks and the promotion of the religion. The time of rememberance of someone's life is NOT the time for that. Your outline is spot on. EVERY witness funeral talk is exactly the same thing except for the very beginning where they mention 4-5 points about the deceased. This funeral this last weekend was down to the tee on everything including the exact reading of Job and Corinthians at the grave site afterwards. And the whole talk they constantly say Brother So-and-So believed this or that I guess trying to make it seem personal while really saying nothing specific about the person.
I always feel like apologing to the non Witness attendees.
And to answer your question kingdom melodies were played before and after the funeral.
Morph - 'not wanting to die until i'm out'