hiya startingover
Good topic,
Rather I see that the essence of what is writen is truth, but detail is added to emphasis a point that means so much to the teller, as they have live the emotion as well. If a wrong has been commited this is far more emotional and certain tears come through without being wet.
When something is suppose to be real, those that read it see it real when the emotion is added weather it be exagerated or not, some call it emotional blackmail others see it tears on paper. Whatever, facts should always be considered before one can take all the rest on board.