Kudia,
I've met a few men who thought their molehills were mountains.
Unrealistic example.. mountains take hundreds of centuries to double in size ! ..... LoL
Caliber
3. women make mountains out of molehills http://www.cnn.com/2008/living/personal/05/28/men.v.women/index.html.
what you think: women obsess about every little thing; men seem to have it all under control.. what the experts say:men are problem-solvers and tend to bring up a problem only in order to search for its solution, says schwarz.
the "eureka" moment of problem-solving increases the level of dopamine, a pleasure-inducing chemical, in the brain.
Kudia,
I've met a few men who thought their molehills were mountains.
Unrealistic example.. mountains take hundreds of centuries to double in size ! ..... LoL
Caliber
3. women make mountains out of molehills http://www.cnn.com/2008/living/personal/05/28/men.v.women/index.html.
what you think: women obsess about every little thing; men seem to have it all under control.. what the experts say:men are problem-solvers and tend to bring up a problem only in order to search for its solution, says schwarz.
the "eureka" moment of problem-solving increases the level of dopamine, a pleasure-inducing chemical, in the brain.
Snowbird.
H4O is busy over on the OTHER site.. she's a mod..... keeps her busy ! ~Caliber
3. women make mountains out of molehills http://www.cnn.com/2008/living/personal/05/28/men.v.women/index.html.
what you think: women obsess about every little thing; men seem to have it all under control.. what the experts say:men are problem-solvers and tend to bring up a problem only in order to search for its solution, says schwarz.
the "eureka" moment of problem-solving increases the level of dopamine, a pleasure-inducing chemical, in the brain.
Stilla,
Do you have an extra set of mountain climbing gear ? ~~Caliber
3. women make mountains out of molehills http://www.cnn.com/2008/living/personal/05/28/men.v.women/index.html.
what you think: women obsess about every little thing; men seem to have it all under control.. what the experts say:men are problem-solvers and tend to bring up a problem only in order to search for its solution, says schwarz.
the "eureka" moment of problem-solving increases the level of dopamine, a pleasure-inducing chemical, in the brain.
I see you've turned green either with envy (over men ) or you got a whiff of one of those grown up critters (man/skunks ) LOL
Caliber
3. women make mountains out of molehills http://www.cnn.com/2008/living/personal/05/28/men.v.women/index.html.
what you think: women obsess about every little thing; men seem to have it all under control.. what the experts say:men are problem-solvers and tend to bring up a problem only in order to search for its solution, says schwarz.
the "eureka" moment of problem-solving increases the level of dopamine, a pleasure-inducing chemical, in the brain.
Snowbird.
You are absolutely right. I love children but can't stand men. Go figure
Baby skunks are sweet and adorable too ! Don't you know !
Caliber
3. women make mountains out of molehills http://www.cnn.com/2008/living/personal/05/28/men.v.women/index.html.
what you think: women obsess about every little thing; men seem to have it all under control.. what the experts say:men are problem-solvers and tend to bring up a problem only in order to search for its solution, says schwarz.
the "eureka" moment of problem-solving increases the level of dopamine, a pleasure-inducing chemical, in the brain.
I'm getting all my boxing gloves out , ready for the big fight ! .....
Outlaw and Snowbird what size of mit do you all take ? ... hee hee hee !
Caliber
3. women make mountains out of molehills http://www.cnn.com/2008/living/personal/05/28/men.v.women/index.html.
what you think: women obsess about every little thing; men seem to have it all under control.. what the experts say:men are problem-solvers and tend to bring up a problem only in order to search for its solution, says schwarz.
the "eureka" moment of problem-solving increases the level of dopamine, a pleasure-inducing chemical, in the brain.
3. Women make mountains out of molehills http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/personal/05/28/men.v.women/index.html
What you think: Women obsess about every little thing; men seem to have it all under control.
What the experts say:Men are problem-solvers and tend to bring up a problem only in order to search for its solution, says Schwarz. The "eureka" moment of problem-solving increases the level of dopamine, a pleasure-inducing chemical, in the brain. (This also explains why men will wait until it's absolutely necessary to stop and ask for directions.)
Women relieve stress by talking and relating their problems to others, which produces serotonin, said to enhance moods and ward off depression.
I don't mean to get a fight going but this site on CNN brings out many chemical and physical reasons to difference in men and women.
Caliber
the older i get, the more i see that most "friends" are not "real friends".
i can count on 1 hand who i consider friends.
i have many enjoyable aquaintances that i socialize with but i doubt they'd really be "there" for you.
Even from the biblical Christan view we have two needs or directives Matt. 22...... love of God
love of neighbor. Yet at the Kingdom Hall this supposed love of God is taken to such high extreme
so as to invalidate any natural free flow of thought and actions. Mechanical actions can NEVER
produce real friends ! True loyalty to God is seen as "what we must do " not what we feel
is the right thing to do for the love and trust as a true friend to continue;to allow time and space
for a Friend to arrive at conclusion in their own good time through their free will and desire.
Guilt and fear unnaturally supersede the greatest emotion that of love !
So intense becomes the focus on that one solitary tree (the kingdom ) that we fail to appreciate the shade, the comfort, the protection and sheer beauty provided amid a virtual forest of trees !........
for this what my true friends mean to me !
Caliber
the older i get, the more i see that most "friends" are not "real friends".
i can count on 1 hand who i consider friends.
i have many enjoyable aquaintances that i socialize with but i doubt they'd really be "there" for you.
Do you know what I found amazing about this thread ? Mostly it's man talking about friends
I expected that it would 90 % women.. but don't get me wrong I think it's great to see guys too
realizing the need and importance of "true unconditional friendship "! We are all deep down
social creatures .. a very human need... the very macho totally self made man is a undesirable
myth !
Caliber
well, the confrontation i've been trying to avoid happened this afternoon.
on my way to my martial arts class with my df'ed brother, i stopped at 7/11.
while i was at the counter an older sister who was one of my best friends while i was still active walked right behind me but didn't see me.
It's the same old story... same stuck record .. meetings, field service,.. faithful slave class
that has all and only truth ! Any other source of strength or encouragement is condemned as
either worthless or worse evil ! You did right expressing yourself in a calm, controlled manner.
When on the outside looking in you do see the sneering... self-righteous attitude looking to
belittle any would be sensible, reasonable answers you might give them or worse to trip you
up putting your neck in a noose. Rejoin us or else.. no other options available !
Caliber