Posts by caliber

one of my "so called" closest sister friend in the congregation, said to me when we once had lunch that "if i was a man, i would want to have an affair with you"!!!

i just went numb...what a crazy thing to say.

i think she revealed her sick deep thoughts.

caliber

She paid you a compliment. No reason to be offended.
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I agree with this statement.. unless there some further indication as too her "preferences" there's too much assumption ! You can be a man or woman and still know what attracts the opposite sex ! An off beat comment but ..... too much reading between the lines ! Cal

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Blood Issue took my mom last night

by rwagoner in

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after years of fighting a physical disability that ended in kidney failure and several bouts of respiratory/cardiac arrestmy mom landed in the hospital last week.

the doc's said she needed heart surgery and kidney transplants but before they could operate they need to get her blood count back up.

it had fallen well below what her body could naturally restore on its own she she needed transfusions.

caliber

rwagoner,

Sorry about your mother first off ..... then to add I feel your frustration and angry all due to WT. mind control

Wt. is not just considered another religion of choice.. but the God assigned theocratic government

ruling the earth even now ! Each one must in the end decide if their source of power and personal choice

will come from internal source or external ! Try to find peace in the fact that years of indoctrination really

leave but one choice for many honest and trusting souls ! .....Once again so sorry !

Caliber

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Is it possible to truly love your hubby, wife, partner, lover etc and still

by mtsgrad in

jw
friends

have an affair?

just curious.

mtsgrad.

caliber

6 months later he claimed he was still in love with my friend. He realized he did NOT love the mistress......he loved how she made him feel. What a waste

I think that where clear thinking comes in .. know the difference between ego gratification & true love and

commitment ! Just remember the story about the cat that crossed the railway track.. part of his trail was cut

off ... he went back it get it... the train ran over him... cutting off his head

"Don't lose your head over a piece of ........" simple but sound advice ! .... !

Caliber

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Is it possible to truly love your hubby, wife, partner, lover etc and still

by mtsgrad in

jw
friends

have an affair?

just curious.

mtsgrad.

caliber

Please broaden your horizons on women's research

Thank you Yknot and here"s about cheating men to BROADEN my outlook on things !

Here are the top 10 reasons why men cheat:http://www.womansavers.com/why-men-cheat.asp

1. Because they had the option. The old saying “men are only as faithful as their options” can sometimes ring true. Men don’t get offered sex as often as women so when the opportunity does arise, it can be very difficult for them to turn it down.

2. It boosts their ego. Sometimes men don’t feel like they are attractive to the opposite sex any more and when a woman shows some interest, not only does a man react, he may allow her to stroke his ego and more. There’s nothing like the thrill of the chase to men on the hunt. When they are finally rewarded for their efforts, their egos swell even larger.

3. You grow apart. Maybe the two of you didn’t have as much in common as you thought. He’s met a woman who has more in common with him who loves football or plays golf. He may check out if he is compatible with her under the sheets also.

4. You argue a lot. Men will sometimes cheat to get away from an overly critical or argumentative partner. Who wants to be around someone who is constantly on them about something.

5. He’s fallen out of love. Sometimes men become so comfortable in a relationship, they don’t know how to get out. They may be staying in the relationship because of children or financial reasons. However, they feel like they are missing out on love and may seek it out elsewhere. In their mind, this is as close to win-win as they can get.

6. Your sex life sucks. If a man has a disinterested partner or isn’t getting enough sex to fulfill him, there is a good chance he will have an affair. Just because you have a husband or boyfriend, does not mean you can stop trying. It takes a little bit of effort to keep your sex life from getting boring and non-existent. Some men cheat because they want to try new sexual things that their current partner will not try.

7. To get revenge. A man will sometimes cheat if he finds out his partner was cheating on him. How else is he supposed to heal those hurt feelings of his but through good old fashioned sex?

8. It’s new, different and exciting. Some men get tired of having steak for dinner every night and want to try a hamburger. The same goes for sex with a woman. That’s why men don’t necessarily always cheat with women who are more attractive than their partners.

9. To see if they can get away with it. If a man has the attitude of “what she doesn’t know, won’t hurt her,” he may cheat to see if he is sneaky and smart enough to get away with it. However, with all the advancement in surveillance spy ware, getting caught has now become easier than ever.

10. Because you have allowed it in the past. If you have forgiven a cheating man a couple of times, they are more than likely going to cheat again because they already know if they plead enough, you will forgive them.

Reasons why men cheat can be more complex than the above list or even be a combination of a few different reasons. Nevertheless, no reason is good enough reason to lie and be dishonest. After all,Karma

For Yknot a very deep and clear thinking women !

Caliber