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  Has Feminism Screwed with the current Generation ?

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  i present this video as a starting point to spur discussion (this is like a red dot topic.... wink wink .

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  caliber

  seen but not heard...

  to assume makes an ass out of u and me
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  Has Feminism Screwed with the current Generation ?

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  i present this video as a starting point to spur discussion (this is like a red dot topic.... wink wink .

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rwr1z4aiywm&feature=related.

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  caliber

  It isn't Feminism per se, but he's discussing the realities of the current situation in the relationships between men and women. I'm more interested in the comments relating to the new dynamics of this day and age. It's quite likely he is mistaken to give it the title or category of Feminism to describe the prevailing thought or idea behind his frustrations.
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  Has Feminism Screwed with the current Generation ?

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  i present this video as a starting point to spur discussion (this is like a red dot topic.... wink wink .

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  caliber

  Feminism is at one extreme while misogyny is at the other end of the spectrum

  Why be an extreme anything ???

  Also I think the problem with any official" movement" is they focus so strong on one injustice they they can create another.

  I had a friend who was discussing visitation rights etc with his kids... and ask " what about my rights" .. the lady answered

  "we are only here to represent the children"........so I say if you only treat part of the problem .. what you can't expect to get ?
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  Has Feminism Screwed with the current Generation ?

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  i present this video as a starting point to spur discussion (this is like a red dot topic.... wink wink .

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  caliber

  Thanks Palmtree for answering my question from a women's point of view

  thanks P.S. also

  by the way Palmtree .. you have really nice ..... just joking man !!!!
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  Has Feminism Screwed with the current Generation ?

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  i present this video as a starting point to spur discussion (this is like a red dot topic.... wink wink .

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rwr1z4aiywm&feature=related.

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  caliber

  What I found very revealing... there is a reality show on TV where this lady provides dating services

  for millionaires seeking mates. To a women millionaire she said .... "I know are successful and confident you are

  as a self sufficient millionairee... but don't you call ... make the man call and be the pursuer ." So this women with over twenty years of

  setting up couples still sees the man as chasing, always taking the lead .

  It she seems recognizes a natural pattern in nature.. man as the leader.. the initiator !

  Would any of you ladies dispute her conclusion ???
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  Has Feminism Screwed with the current Generation ?

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  i present this video as a starting point to spur discussion (this is like a red dot topic.... wink wink .

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rwr1z4aiywm&feature=related.

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  caliber

  It's like watching a Keystone Cops silent movie where everybody is bumping into each other and wrecking everything. The rules are constantly changing and it becomes impossible to figure out what is going to happen next

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  Wouldn't this agree with the opening video .. he stated the the structure for dating and courtship are gone ?
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  Has Feminism Screwed with the current Generation ?

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  i present this video as a starting point to spur discussion (this is like a red dot topic.... wink wink .

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rwr1z4aiywm&feature=related.

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  caliber

  It's like in society's attempt to swing the pendulem away from treating women bad, it swung too far, to the point of demasculinizing young men

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  And you're saying feminism had nothing whatsoever to do with this swing ?

  quote from video ... says feminism inadvertently ruined the structure for dating and family life

  You can hurt people without willful intent .. can you not ?

  With "friendly fire" the bullets are just as deadly !!
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  Has Feminism Screwed with the current Generation ?

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  i present this video as a starting point to spur discussion (this is like a red dot topic.... wink wink .

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  caliber

  If you are a man and all you want to do is play the field and get some nookie, the feminism/sexual revolution has created a happy hunting ground. The "old way" kept men under control. Women relinquished that control. Sex is as free as air, these days.For a single guy that isn't a LOSER, the sexual market is a big win

  The trickery part is to figure out who still in the hunting game, and who's into the marrying game then , is it not ?

  I Think this guy is talking about seeking a permanent relationship
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  i present this video as a starting point to spur discussion (this is like a red dot topic.... wink wink .

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  caliber

  My experience tells me, guys like him end up involved in relationships with women who are seeking a man that acts like a man. Usually those women run all over guys like him

  With all that being said, he IS correct that young men now have it harder. They can't skate by on the social collateral provided them by the asymmetrical power systems of the past

  Now please some sweet lady bring these two thoughts together for me to understand..it seems like a catch 22 situation !

  It puts me in mind a joke my dad told me..... You're in a air raid shelter WW2 , the lights on cut .... suddenly a women says in the darkness "get your

  hand out of there right now ! "" then she says "NO NOT YOU ! You have to be the right man at the right time but if you're the man wrong ..it's not right !
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  Has Feminism Screwed with the current Generation ?

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  i present this video as a starting point to spur discussion (this is like a red dot topic.... wink wink .

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  caliber

  .... if we can look past camps of understand and work one on one to build a solid

  communicative understanding this is the best ... talk to the heart of the matter

  At the heart of it, a woman wants to know that she can trust you to provide a secure, supportive and possibly interesting future; that you have the depth to stand by her, no matter her moods and shortcomings. She needs to know you are strong enough to be faithful and never stray, come what may

  At the heart of it , a man wants to touch the truth -- that you love him -- that he's "the one" for you. He wants to feel that he inspires happiness in you and that you accept, trust, and appreciate him. At his depth a man needs to know that he makes a positive difference in your life, otherwise he doesn’t even want to live.

  A man’s deepest fear is that he is not good enough. If he looks in your eyes and sees love, he feels loved, and in that innocence, he loves you in return. He loves you for the feeling of energy which your appreciation and love evoke in him .

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