General Belief: Most believe that soul mates can accept and love every part of the other's personality and that life with a soul mate is easy and natural.
Soul Mate Challenges
Although you may assume that a partnership of two soul mates should be able to handle challenging times well, that may not always be the case. Just because they are in tune to one another, are each willing to take responsibility for their role in contributing to the conflict, and are both committed to making the marriage a successful one -- the marriage can still fall apart if other essentials...love, respect, and communication are missing
There can be temptation to bail out of an unhappy marriage because you think your spouse isn't your soul mate. If you think that marrying your soul mate will mean a life free from hard times and conflict, you are not facing reality. If you think you've not married your soul mate, don't just walk away from the relationship for that reason alone. Spend some time getting to know yourself a bit better first. You can't find your soul mate if you haven't found yourself.
However, there are several viewpoints as to how to describe "soul mates" ... even on how to spell it! Some people spell the term as a whole word, soulmate and others, including us, prefer to keep it as two words, soul mateThe secret would seem to take a balanced view,if you are looking for a profound connection, it could be a long search!
I would say its much like a naturally gifted sprinter, you may have a head start on the field, but don't practice and or
focus then see what happens ! By the way, given my marriage situation, I would spell it soulmate !( 30 years on 27th, this month )
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