woah.. sorry,, didn't mean to make all those blank posts.. lol...
what i was gonna say is im pretty sure that one reason their making these calls is cause over the last 2-3 years many in my cong. have had family members die, I even had a very good freind of mine, a nice young man, who ran away from home and apperently commited asphyxiation and was found dead in his car. Im really good freinds with thier entire family, including his younger brother who is my age, and his (thier) mom was daigonesed with a cerrtain form of cancer at the same time, and they went to a jw (i think he may have been an elder) they were directed to in the other side of the country to pursue medical assistance, but he did nothing essentially for her ((and other jw's in the same position apperently)), saying that she was getting better, while being halfway across the country and not even monitoring her. eventually she got much worse and stayed in hospital and died about only a month or so after her son. It was a tough time for me and my friends becuase it was such a shock..when i first heard i didnt want to belive it...
and thats just one family in my hall.. theirs other familes who have lost someone also.. people i've known for years.. so i see that as one reason.. but if they asked me that question, likely i would refuse to awnser it.. lol how could you anwser it.. you cant just say that everything is hard about being a jw... lol and thanks..