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i happen to be the mom of the two girls he speaks of in this thread.... had a differnent name when i started reading this board so i wanted to make sure he knows who i am... First of all the girls and i don't go to any meetings. Ive told you this but just in case it didnt sink in there it is again. I have made my wishes known to my parents of how i intend to bring up the girls and what i want them to know about and make choices about. When i became the main parent in thier lives I had no way to support them. No work history to fall back on. The one thing i had to fall back on was my family. So i would appreciate you not brinnging my family up in this way again. They have helped me through the hardest part of my life. Our split up. I dont expect you to understand that, i've tried to explain it to you many times but its like talking to someone ive never known. I go on with the help of my parents and my brother. I dont bother you for anything unless it is something im not sure how to handIe. I have tried to set a good example by what i am doing with my life to the girls. I have been in college for several years now and have made something of myself that i can be proud of in the years we have been apart. That is the one thing i will drill into our girls is the need for education so they dont have to rely on ANYONE. Believe me that is not a JW teaching and you know that. They bring up nice girls that will be nice JW wives remember i used to be one of those it was the one compliment if you want to call it one that i have gotten from you. Im not sure that is what you meant by saying that to me but i refuse to take it any other way. I really hope i have taught the girls they dont need a husband or any man for that matter to get what they want. More then anything else i want them to be able to handle a life they choose for themselves and i will do all in my power to give them what they want and need to do just that in life. So dont you dare sit there and think that i am about to let them become mindless robots to be used by any idiot guy that comes along. No matter if he be JW or not I wont let it happen to them I was there and dont want and wont let them to wind up with a broken heart because that is where the life we had led. They will be strong women able to stand by any man out there as an equal not a so called compliment that i was taught was the way we are suppose to be. So i will tell you one more time and not anymore then this that the girls dont get anything pushed down on them. Sure they hear mom and dad talk but how are they not going to hear that when i live there and i take care of them. Dont worry they dont have much longer left in life so you really dont have anything to be worried about. That thorn will be gone from your side and you will have to find another to take its place. I read back over this post and i can see my anger at you but only because you again make me feel like i am in the wrong for choices i have had to make. My parents choose to be what they are and i wont tell them they are wrong because they have such a short time left if it makes them happy to be what they are then leave them out of any of this. Every man woman and child has a right to be what they wish to be as much as we may hate it. They are old too old to change what they believe. I wont be any more of a pain to them then i already have become. There is so much i would say but all of it comes out so angry. I am a better person because of my family and so are our girls if you have anymore issues with my family please refer them to me. I dont ask you for much but im asking you for this. Thanks

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How do you help your kids if they are surrounded by dubs?

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