The thing that I don't understand about many of the women I have gone out with (and women could probably say the same about men they know or have gone out with) is that most of them have no idea of where they have been, where they are at, or where they want to go. Its like they have no curiosity about themselves or the world around them. They have a couple of interests in life and that is it which I find tedious at best. It is not perfection, which is an impossible standard, but a women who hasn't lost that sense of curiosity is a huge turn on for me.
Pick better women perhaps?