When my sister was out, she helped me get out. But when my brother would criticize (sp) the JWs she would always take up for them. She ended up going back in.
I know people who have come out and when I ask them if they are interested in meeting with others who have left or been DF or abused or whatever, they look at me like I am crazy.
I talked to a pro counselor one time and she surmized it might be they are still running from bad memories. But I think they just don't want to think about how wrong they were.
But in my experience, if you don't study your history, you might repeat it. I know there are people here who no longer believe in God, but when I read the Bible, I get continual support for leaving the borg with their way of twisting Scriptures and taking them out of context.
sacrebleu