I agree with Pirata...... he is hitting on you (potential pedophile!)
I am sorry they are being such dumbasses!
The good news is that you are intelligent and all you have to do is survive this tribulation until you can get out on your own......you can do that, it will suck balls but it is doable....... then move out and on, busy yourself with your studies, worldlie associations, and career path!
giggles here is an evil thought...... go out and fornicate right before you leave for Uni....confess to the CO and blame it on that brother for constantly suggesting you were gay!....feign serious stumbling......(nah...forget that idea, just get good grades, get accepted to Uni and go visit your non-jw relatives....they can be a nice replacement support system!)